I guess I’ll have to weigh in on this one - again.
Yes we all acknowlege that most women would be satisfied as long as the penis is functional and not too small. I think that many of us here already know and accept that fact. I think that many of us are out to optimize the pleasure we give our lovers while at the same time doing something for our own self confidence issues. Ask a woman the following question:
If you were building an ideal lover, and you already had installed all the other things you needed or wanted please choose the penis you would install?:
Guess what? no one responds with less than 6.0x5.0
The point is what many of us are getting at is the size issue in isolation. Yes we take it for granted that a guy that is skilled with 6x5 may satisfy a woman more than a clod with 8.5x6. Both men can better themselves, one by simply learning some sexual technique and how to deal with women in general. The other by applying pe techniques. Now to ronin_oz original concerns.
I know my wifes optimal depth is 6.5” (by watching how deep she put in an 8” dildo- she left 1.5” unused). My bpel is 7.5”
At certain times of the month she is shallow and more care needs to be taken not to bang the cervix at an uncomfortable angle. Other times of the month this is not much of an issue. Keep in mind that not all of one’s bpel goes in, this depends on position and how fat one is, etc. I assume that about 6.75 of my unit can go in if I grind hard and press deep. but maybe I don’t want to have to struggle that hard to get to optimal depth in order to stimulate the cul de sac? I find the cds stimulation to have been a very useful part of enhancing our lovemaking and it requires a certain amount of length to do it. 5 or 6” in length is not gonna cut it if this is what you are after. If you don’t care about this, if g-spot and clitoral stimulation is your wife or gf’s cup of tea then go for girth or finger and tongue tricks. I do think that for the guys that have been succesful in enlarging thier dicks that they should take care not to rely too much on simply arriving at bed with your big dick, she might get bored with that after a while even if at first its all you need.
Check it out guys, no need to have a big dick if you ain't gonna use it!!