You or I would probably have trouble too if we had to perform on demand for hours with a camera crew present. Big dick or small, that situation isn’t conducive to raging wood.
Taped onto the dashboard of a car at a junkyard, I once found the following: "Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement." The car was crashed.
Primary goal: To have an EQ above average (i.e. streetsmart, compassionate about life and happy) Secondary goal: to make an anagram of my signature denoting how I feel about my gains