PE Documentary - What do you think
I have what many might consider a rather unusual request. But before I make it let me give you a bit of background information about myself.
I am a 52 year old straight male, a widower, with two wonderful, grown children who live on their own (thank goodness.) Over a 24 month period I’ve had the opportunity to date 50 women (yes, really), mostly blind dates. I even had the opportunity to sleep with some of them, several more than once. All was well and good until the last one. When we got into bed, actually the couch, she made a comment something along the lines of “Oh, you’re kind of small.” Ouch!
Actually, up until that point I never had any complaints and, at 5.8” long and about 4.8” in circumference, I had always considered myself pretty much dead-on average. I wonder who she was seeing. (Actually, I must admit that in a totally flaccid state I sometimes have a hard time finding that sucker, I think it’s called turtling, and I seem to excel at it. Damn!) You would think that at my age her comment wouldn’t mean anything, but it did.
Her comment played on my mind for a while until I finally decided to see if there was anything I could do about it, you know, my size. After a bit of exploring I stumbled upon several websites related to PE, including this one. Hope was in the air.
My Jump Into the World of PE
I eagerly read many of the posts and was heartened to read that some guys are claiming that they have achieved some truly wonderful results following the advice posted here and elsewhere. And this advice appears to be coming from people who don’t really seem to have anything to gain, such as by selling me a product.
In September I started a regimen of warm-ups, stretching and jelqs. Still, I must admit that I am somewhat skeptical, as is the medical community. But the claims of success made by guys on this and other sites can’t be ignored, and hence my unusual request.
I would like to put to bed any doubts about the viability of the exercise regimens recommended on this and other sites, or expose them as frauds. (Frankly, I really hope they work because I’m aiming for 7”L x 6”C, hopefully within a year.)
To accomplish this I want to create a professional video documentary of the experience of 15 –20 men who follow the advice given here and elsewhere. Real names would not be used on camera and your face would be hidden by various techniques, as well. I, and perhaps a member of my staff, would be the only person who knows your real identity.
The documentary would include a filmed interview with you every 3 months over a 12 month period. You would be encouraged to share your reasons for pursuing PE and what changes you expect to get from them, both physical and psychological.
In order to truly document the changes you would be filmed taking length and girth measurements in a flaccid, stretched and erect state at each interview. You could take the measurements yourself, or have your wife or girlfriend do it for you. However it is done, the measurement process would be filmed to make the results indisputable. If it made you more comfortable, I may even be able to arrange to have a female associate conduct the interview. You would also be given a brief log sheet to be completed each day you perform the exercises. I would get a copy of the logs at each interview.
I will also try to arrange for one of the hosts of the PE sites to agree to be filmed demonstrating in detail how each exercise should be performed or how each tool should be properly used.
When all interviews are completed the results would be publicly posted. You would receive a free copy of the documentary.
I SHOULD STRESS TO ALL READERS THAT IF YOU VOLUNTEER, YOUR IDENTITY WILL BE TOTALLY PROTECTED VIA A WRITTEN AGREEMENT. UNLESS YOU AGREE YOUR NAME WILL NOT BE USED ON FILM AND YOUR FACE WILL BE HIDDEN EITHER BY MASKING IT. BY BLURRING IT OR BY CONDUCTING THE INTERVIEW FROM BEHIND A SCREEN.
Other Information Regarding the Documentary and PE:
Unfortunately, there seems to be a lot of embarrassment and shame connected with the subject of penile length and girth. There should not be! The subject should be out in the open because it has, unfortunately, became a issue of grave concern for a lot of men, affecting not only their self esteem, but also their sex life and quite possibly other aspects of their life, as well. It’s time for this to end, and you can help. Sharing your experience will not only serve to help other men, but will probably go a long way toward making a positive difference in your life, regardless of the outcome of the exercises.
I am very interested in hearing back from you. I would like to receive your comments and questions along with your suggestion and any concerns you might have. Under what conditions might you consider participating? After receiving your comments and questions I will incorporate them into a formal plan for the documentary and make that plan available for all to see.
A little bit more about me
I live in the Cleveland, Ohio area. I am willing to drive 2-2 ½ hours to conduct the interviews. I even make it to Chicago somewhat regularly. But even if you don’t live within that range, even if you live in California, I would still very much appreciate hearing from you and receiving your thoughts and comments.
I have a degree in science, and although I am not a scientist, I do know a few things about conducting an experiment so that the results are meaningful. I have been a lifelong photographer, although I do not make my living at photography. I am also an experienced videographer. I’ve worked on 4 films and 2 documentaries made in Northern Ohio by local artists. And I do have the qualities and skills necessary to make a professional documentary of this nature.
This is a very serious, professional request! I hope you will respond.
A Few Comments Based on Feedback I Have Received
I do not intend to interview more than one person at a time, it is not going to be a group arrangement. If I find someone in Pittsburgh that is willing to participate I will drive there to meet him, do the interview and drive back home. Three months later I will do the same. Each interview will probably last about 20 - 30 minutes.
I feel I need to start with 5 men but ultimately incorporate up to 15, maybe 20, since along the way a few might drop out. I also want enough interviews documented so that the results are meaningful. It may also turn out that I won’t use all the interviews but will, focus on fewer men. But I feel that I need to get more interviews upfront and then make the final decisions during the editing process. I will start the project as soon as I have 4-5 guys who are willing to participate. Hopefully, once the ball gets rolling and there is feedback from these men I will be able to enlist others.
The documentary would not do much good unless it was available to the general public. As far as how to make it available among other things, I am anticipating offering it to any TV / cable network that has an interest. I am sure that a few of the TV talk shows would be interested. Maybe even Oprah. What better way to bring this out into the open. By that I mean not only the ability to increase in size, but the emotional side of it, as well.
I have given some thought to compensating those men that actually volunteer and who live up to the commitment of 4 interviews over a 12 month period and who practice PE regularly during that time. I can’t pay anyone upfront, but I certainly feel that if any money is made from this documentary (money is not my motivating factor) then these men should share in part of the profits. I can’t say how much that would be.
I would like to DOCUMENT that PE does work, but also include video of how to safely utilize the exercises. But not only that. There may be as many reason motivating men to try PE as there are men doing it. I would like to explore these reasons. For many men there is a truly emotional side to this whole experience, and for some it could affect their quality of life. I somehow believe that there are MANY men in that position. If I could find a few courageous men who would share their experiences and feelings with just one person (me) I think that would be very beneficial for a LOT of other guys. It helps to know that one is not alone, and that there is understanding and encouragement from other people. There is nothing unmanly about having feelings, emotions and doubts.
Even though I want to follow their progress for a period of 12 months, I don’t expect that I will have the 15 - 20 men I am seeking all at one time. If I were to start the project today, it may take me, say, 24 months to complete it. It all depends on when I am able to gather enough interviews and documentation. Again, this is not a group interview, it is one-on-one private interview, so not everyone has to come on board at the same time.
With respect to sample size, I am not looking to come up with absolutely indisputable, definitive results. I think in order to do that I would need to follow several hundred men. That’s something I’m not about to do. I’ll leave that for others. However, with 15-20 men I think that the results would give a VERY STRONG indication of the effectiveness of PE. For example, looking at the extremes, if everyone jumped in (documented) size I think the results would be all but indisputable. If no one increased in size, then PE would surely be HIGHLY suspect. Even if only a few increased in size (I hope I am one) then there is definitely something to be said for PE. But in this last scenario, just as in prescription drugs, PE may not work for everyone.
By the way, I plan to use my own results as part of the documentary. I hope you will agree to participate.