I think what holds every man back is Fear. Fear in anything. Fear sucks a lot, I mean really it is totally a depressing downer emotion. I am not looking to have a bunch of people follow a trend here saying “The only thing to fear is fear itself” lol, but I mean really I think your right. Honestly this may be judgmental a little but what could possibly be your reasoning for not telling your son of PE other than fear? Fear he might injure himself doing it wrong? Fear he may judge you for having insecurities? ( I mean come on don’t most kids early on think their dad is superman? I know I did for a really long time ) Fear he may tell on you? Fear that you might create an unwanted Fear in his head? ( Look at your genetics and the mothers genetics if your packing a small unit and her dad or brothers have small ones it is a chance your son will too right? So it is possible he would get the fear of not trying with the ladies because he is small ) Or fear that your son becomes a porn star/man whore and bangs all the girls in his high school because he did PE and grew a huge cock? I suppose I am biased to telling my son because I have made up my mind because I know that I have anxiety issues with size and I don’t want him to have that ( there is a cure it is called PE and it takes patience son ). But I am certainly not going to fear the results of what would happen, sure something could go wrong but in the long run I see it as a positive thing to pass on, just like fitness, just like eating healthy, just like having a hard work ethic, just like being supportive to those in need, just like teaching him to always try. I mean I really just don’t see what is so bad about telling your son about PE, if you have told your wife about PE and she is cool with it then in theory are you not actually obligated to tell your son because you have told the Mother of that child and she knows now how to make her son into a man that is more appealing to almost everyone woman in the world? Not saying that she would want her son to be a man whore either but I think that everyone woman at least hopes her son is strong and manly right? I mean it is nature after all.
F… fear. Theres really too much of it in the world today, one thing I have learned to do the last couple of years is to not take every god damn thing so seriously.
Within that lies fear, and I believe it’s all ego based. Lets face it we all have the right to live and we are all gonna die so why have all this nonsense fears?
I will do my best to live a life without fear, have had enough of that shit and just laugh at some of those stupid insecure thought patterns one has built up.
The sooner one learns to be fearless the better, and if I can pivot the scale in the right direction for my kid I will do that.
It takes much longer to get rid of excisting fear as opposed to learning to have no fear from the getgo I believe.
The superman father thing is a true classic. Remember a picture of my dad lying on the beach, buff and muscular in his red speedos, with an insane bulge because of his huge balls and big dick.
I know my father was known for being like a manly man and popular with the ladies. And friends of my dad to this day jokes around with how pretty and popular( not in that way) my mum was.
So where is my speedo package? Finally on it’s way not including the big balls dough, they were out of that.