I’ve been PEing for 1 year now. Prior to PEing I rarely had problems with getting really hard erections when I was with a female. I occasionally had the couldn’t get it up thing, but I was never worried about it because I knew it was in my head because everything was fine when I was by myself. During my first month of doing PE my erections went from really hard to superhard. During the night, I constantly had rock solid erections that would spring up for no reason.
During the second month, I noticed I had a loss of sensitivity around the head and also that my erections were getting weaker. When I was with a girl I had a hard time staying hard. I would get to about 80 or 90% and if I didn’t have stimulation that would drop off quick. I know I probably should have adjusted my routine at that point, but I was seeing good gains so I actually increased it. Roughly 10 months later, my problem has got worse. The only time I get decently hard (80% or so) is right before I ejaculate. I had sex with a new girl 2 Sundays ago that is really attractive, and I kept losing my erection. I eventually had to masturbate myself right up to the point of ejaculation and then stick it in for the last minute or so. After that incident, I swore off of PE until things returned to normal.
For the first three days of no PE, I don’t recall getting hard at all, unless it happened in my sleep. Not even a semi. Also, some numbness started to appear. After the third day, I started to get about 70% erect at night without any stimulation, but it wouldn’t last but for a minute or so. The most morning wood I’ve had has been a semi. Also, my flaccid is really small and skinny compared to what it usually was when I was PEing.
Tomorrow will make 10 days that I’ve went without any PE. But tonight I did masturbate up until I almost ejaculated, but my erection was really really weak. I started PE 1 year ago at a little under 7 BPEL and I’m now a little under 8.5 BPEL. My goal is to hit either 9 or 9.25 BPEL and then focus on gaining girth, which now is a little over 5. I’d like to get it up to 6. I’ve only did manual exercises. Just jelqing and stretching. I’m only 24 so I don’t want to worry about erection problems now. I’m guessing that I’ve spent the majority of my PE career overtraining. Any viewpoints, similar stories, or advice on this?