Non-hereditary causes of small penis
My dad has an above-average-sized penis. My two brothers have HUGE penises. My other brother has a small penis. I believe I had the smallest.
I’ve often thought about this and have come to some clarifications that defy mainstream thought. For example, what if everyone in your family has big penises, but you don’t? this makes me think that it may NOT be merely a genetic issue. I’m not saying that heredity isn’t a factor. If you have three generations of small penises, then you probably will have a small penis. But what about the exceptions to this? This is what I’d like to share my thoughts on and welcome your feedback.
Here are some theories of mine that can cause a smaller penis:
PERMANENT STATE OF FEAR
When the average man is in a fear mode, there is a natural retraction of the penis. But what if growing up, you are a sensitive, high-strung, worrying type of kid. It’s not that you are actually in fear, but the high stress/adrenaline becomes your norm. So I believe that physiologically, parts of your body mold into this and become permanent. For example, cold hands, sunken chest, shallow breathing, rapid heartbeat, quick reflexes, light sleeper, high alert and … retracting penis, becomes a normal, constant way of life.
SLEEPING IN FETAL POSITION
Notice how much of your penis goes inside your body and then comes out when you fluctuate between a fetal position and flat, or even reverse-fetal (arch back). Is it possible that by sleeping all curled up, You could be “training” for the permanent “turtle effect?”
MENTALLY WANTING A SMALL PENIS
Since I can remember I’ve had a varicocele. These are varicose veins that are in the scrotum. It’s not painful, but it is weird-looking. Now that I’m an adult, it’s more proportional, but having a left-testicle the size of an tennis ball on a 10 year old is very embarrassing and awkward. My whole life I’ve been uncomfortable sitting because the inseam of normal pants cuts into my scrotum and feels too tight. I only recently, finally found the kind of underwear that is loose yet supportive. Anyway, I specifically remember when I was a kid wishing for a smaller penis! I really understand how our subconscious will create our reality. So in a way, I may have willed my penis to be small!
EMOTIONAL FEAR OF MANHOOD
My dad was a “man’s man” and leaned towards the domineering side. Sometimes he would blow up for no reason and yell or hit. We have a fantastic relationship now. But I’ve often wondered if I may have said to myself that I don’t want to be like that. And in thinking that, I wonder if I subconsciously put “I don’t want to have a big penis” in the same thought (equating big penis with masculine dominance.)
Even though my penis was small, I frequently had erections. Not understanding why this was (as a kid), I do remember wishing they would stop and that my penis would not be hard and that it would be smaller. I don’t know if I had erections more often than any other boy, but it really, really bothered me. Prior to understanding these things, I really felt that there was something wrong with me.
LARGE TESTICLES PREVENT DOWNWARD ANGLE
Another theory I have is that the weight of the penis itself will tend to cause it to stretch on it’s own, without pulling, just from normal movement. But if the balls are large at an early age, the penis shaft, even when non-erect, is in a constant state of aiming upward, especially while sitting. So in this situation, gravity is not doing its job to pull the shaft downward, so the natural “stretch” never occurs!
I’m mentioning these things because, aside from physical manipulation, I wonder if working on these other issues later in life will enhance or complement the other PE work. Your thoughts?
Start: (6-27-03/at age 45) 3.75" BPEL, 4.75 EG". Current: 6" BPEL, 5.5" EG ... Update (2/2010): My current love doesn't want me any bigger... can you believe it? So, I've decided to take a break from PE. But I'm still happy to inspire people and respond if you contact me.