My personal victory

It’s been slightly over a year since I’ve started doing PE. I came to these forums as a complete mental wreck. I’d had gone through the worst thing next to a death in the family that a husband can go through. My security and general peace of mind was devastated beyond what I thought could be salvaged. God must have had his hand in directing me to these forums when I was at my worst and for that I thank Him like a poor wretch would thank another person who pulled him from destruction and put him high!

Tonight my wife and I had sex and once again she begged me to:

“hurry up sweetie, I’m getting sore”!

It took me about 3 minutes to take care of myself after she started begging me to get it done. Laying there in bed next to her and hearing her say:

“I’m sore”

was total music to my ears, not because I hurt my wife but because hearing this said is a new thing that I thought I would never hear, ever. I used to last 10 seconds if I was lucky and countless times I lasted 2 - 3 seconds. Not much worse for a mans pride then to know that as far as sex goes he’s a dud! Having a penis with a hair trigger is as worthless as a whore with a stiched up pussy. Sex with me was a nightmare I’m certain. I used to cum so fast I would try to cram it into a girl as fast as I could and jack-hammer as fast as I could before I would cum - - thinking that I was compensating by making it go in and out more. What a disaster!

As I said, I’ve been at this stuff for slightly over a year now and while it’s not really that much bigger then it was when I started doing these exercises I CAN NOW OUTLAST MY WIFE, EASY! To say my erection quality is unlike it was prior to starting PE would be an understatement of blatant facts. While I didn’t get the size gains that many here have got (Yet) I’ve got everything out of PE that I could ever dream of with ending my premature ejaculation. Seeing my wife with an open mouth of dissbelief as I slowly put my penis inside of her and start grinding is worth more then the hundreds of hours I’ve put into hard work in a small bathroom in an even smaller condo. For that I thank God for directing me to this place and meeting some of the best friends a person could ask for.. Think about it guys, how many of your “friends” know your worst fears, how much you ejaculate and the exact measurement (s) of your dick! We have something very special here and a heavy round of applause is due Thunder for pulling it all off!

I’ve got 3/4” of NBP to get before I turn in my cards and at the rate I’m getting it, you guys will be stuck with me for a long time. It’s coming very slow but even as negative as I am about my dick getting bigger I can see it happening, clearly! I especially want those who are new to this to know beyond a doubt that PE is very real and if the hours are put in, doing the exercises *and* reading the correct way to do them the payoff is worth far more then the time you spend.. Also, Thunder has mentioned that there are lurkers who read the posts but never say anything. I would urge you to take the next step and become a full member and start to ask questions and tell your story. I came here a wreck with my head hung low and within the last month my attitude has improved so much that my wife often times thinks I’m on drugs! I’m living proof that you can turn it around. I’m also living proof that someone can drag themselves up on the doorstep of Thunder’s Place Forums and be accepted with open arms by a community of people who care and are working toward a common goal. In numbers there is strength and there is great strength here..

Thank you everyone for helping me get to where I currently am and where I’m going…

RegularWhiteGuy

Really glade for you RegularWhiteGuy, your experience reflects close to what I have also experience, in terms of mental and atitude development. This PE staff helps you develop lot of self confidence and self control besides the physical development of the dick. I am sure you will eventually acquire the physical gains to add to the mental gains.

I have been at this for almost two years come October 2003, as a quite visitor, then a registered member and like you have felt the development of self confidence and also made great physical gains during this period

That is really a positive story Regularwhiteguy, it may sound weird at first to think that sexual performance can cause such devistation, but it is true; sexuality is just as important, if not more important that the mental aspect of a relationship. Us men have a glow about us that women read immedietly, and there is no better feeling than knowing we have that glow back, no matter what it took to get it. Congratulations, feeling good about yourself is healthy, and it looks like Peing made you healthier physically as well as mentally. By the way what was your core routine to correct the premature Ejaculation, curious because I have read many threads about theories to fix it. Personally I kegel, u?

Once again congratulations!!!

Hey RWG, this is a really good post (in my opinion anyways), thanks for sharing!

<< Think about it guys, how many of your “friends” know your worst fears, how much you ejaculate and the exact measurement (s) of your dick! >>

I especially liked that part. Although it’s funny as hell to think about, there is a lot of truth there. I’m glad you found a great place to get help and that your sexual confidence has improved so much. I’m sure it makes you feel good knowing that you are able to please your wife until she wants to stop. Considering that she was with you when you did have a problem with premature ejaculation, obviously she likes more about you than just sex. That being the case, you do her great justice in giving her the best you that you are able to give. Kudos to you bro.

RWG this is the best outcome you could have hoped for. Forget worrying about lack of gains, you ‘gained’ something far more important, and good luck to you in the future for continued development!

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I’m very happy for ya RWG, you deserve it!!

Thanks for the helping me get started with PE!

RWG

I still think you’ll get more pussy if you speed yourself along and not let her get sore after she cums. Maybe accupuncture would do the trick?

RWG

Couldn’t happen to a better guy, and bro while I’m sorry your gaining so slow I’m glad your going to be with us for a long time!!

When her pussy is sore flip her over and bang her in the ass!

Dino

rwg,

Great and inspiring personal post! Thanks for that! You hit the nail right on the head when you said that “we have something special here”. I have never been more honest and open than I have been at Thundersplace. It’s been an incredible PE ride for the past 3 years, and it is the unselfish information sharing and support at Thunders that has kept me going and keeps me going today for more.

Peforeal

Thanks guys… I’ll try to do what you suggest Luvdadus, it’s going to be difficult because I now really get off on the fact I can outlast my wife. I used to hear people brag about how they made love “all night long” and being that my wife gives up at approx the 12 - 15 minute mark I wonder how much truth to doing it all night long there is?

Dino, your the best… I would love to flip my wife over and tag that ass and when she is in extreme doggy style and I see that little butt hole open up it’s like it is talking to me, commanding me to stuff my dick into it… I guess in her case I’m just packing too much meat to be able to do that to her. That woman that had the VIOLENT orgasm I posted about while I was in the Military has caused me to try to re-create it with every woman I’ve been with since. I know it’s pathetic but every time I see a hot girl I wonder what her expression would be as I slowly squeeze my dick in her ass? Does she take it in the ass? WOW! I’m sure that if any other guy had a hottie demand they fuck her in the ass and in the process she had such an orgasm that the particulars burned itself into your mind and 10 years later you could still see the expression of her face and hear her moans, that guy would be in the same boat I’m in. I’ll get to sting the wife in the ass next Feb but until then I’ll just have to wait… I bet she wishes I didn’t find out about the particulars of her fling lol… Life is good.

RWG, that’s great news. I remember when you showed up on these forums. Your confidence is so obvious now, it’s amazing.

Great work :)

Thats a very moving post RWG. PE has had a very big impact in some peoples lives, and you’re an example of that.

I’m very happy for you bro, and even with the slow gains, I hope you stick around for a long time. No one talks about the ass more than you, you’re irreplaceable.

Ya know, no wonder you wanna hang out, you have slow gains and are STILL one of the biggest mother fuckers on the boards…

Keep smiling brother… :)

Hey rwg. your post struck a chord with me too,this place is the best isn’t it.Before I started pe. I was so sad about the state of affairs that I felt like crying,I had a small dick and couldn’t last with it either.Now I’ve got more confidence in the little fella and he behaves himself too,I’ve not told my girlfriend what I’m doing yet but she really does know something is quite different-the other day she said”get it out I just want to feel it”..I could have lept with joy inside,I do know how you feel mate.Congrats and here’s to pe. and the guys at thunders place.

You the man!

No shit!

Don’t lament not getting the poop chute because of too much meat. I dont. I don’t even lament getting too big for a good blow job (the teeth kill me). The size and the staying power are enough.