My dilemma on which to focus on!
After having a discussion with my girl last night, I realized I might need to re-think my goals. She shared that sometimes she is apprehensive to try positions other than missionary because I can go too deep and it hurts her. This is something I already knew that I did occasionally, but finally its kind of hit me that any more length isnt really usable in my situation. Even when she is FULLY aroused and the vagina is tented fully I can hit bottom. I’m not claiming the longest length ever. On the contrary, my measurements are 7.0 BPEL and 4.8 EG. I’ve been hanging and jelqing for a little while now with minimal gains if any. I truly believe I could gain length with a hanging/ADS routine but what for? My ego? The POSSIBILITY of one day finding the CDS? My girl LOVES when I go hard/deep and fast (as long as its not TOO deep of course) and I admit its quite satisfying to really give her a good pounding. So what do I do from here….keep attacking length in the hopes that it will eventually lead to CDS orgasms if I were to reach..say 8 BPEL? What if it doesnt and I have to always be cautious and not able to really pound her like I want too? I’m actually a believer that girth is where its at, but then there is the theory of working length before girth. As of now im leaning towards working on conditioning my unit for clamping via jelqing and some manual squeezes. In my mind 7in BPEL is sufficient and anything more would just be for my ego. What opinions and advice to you all have for me? Work the length first in hopes of one day getting the CDS? Or focus on girth which IMO is most important to most girls?