More evidence of size importance: Dildo Test

As perhaps a final comment on this thread, I talked to my gf tonight, and we got on to the subject of penis size somehow…. I said, “having sex with a small penis isn’t just isn’t pleasurable.”

She tried to be coy and said, “Why would you say that? Why isn’t it?” I know her pretty well, so I said, “Um…. it seems you would know how to answer this better than I would,” at which point she said, “er… I know it’s a terrible thing to say, but … it’s true.”

She is a very sensitive female, but tries to be honest (and is, in fact, much more honest than any I have met). Later on, she said “you’re the perfect size for me.” (okay…. not THAT honest, at this point … but she’s trying to be sensitive) Gee, I guess it’s good I gained exactly what I did before having sex with her, huh? LOL. Therefore, I don’t think she’d mind an extra couple inches in length AND girth. This conversation, for me, was a complete go-ahead response for my PE exercises. (not that I’d stopped them anyway, though)

She doesn’t know about PE, but I can’t wait for the day when she can’t help but ask about it. :D

Thanks for sharing mate!

She agreed, that sex with a small penis isn’t as pleasurable, but I bet she doesn’t think you as small. Anyways, I’m glad that your sticking with it. :)
How big are you now, have you gained any since the first post in this chain?

Right. I also got the impression (although she didn’t exactly SAY it in this way) that bigger is better (to a point). No, she says she doesn’t think of me as small …

I have maybe gained 1/8” in length since my first post, but due to measurement variations, and not wanting to get my hopes up, I only count in 1/4s. Hopefully, I’ll be able to get that 1/4” to make me 7.75” nbp before she’s here in two weeks. Of course, I don’t expect her to notice and point it out. At some point, though, she has to!

BTW, I know she and other women tend to prefer girth, but I decided to get my length goal first; veterans here have said that they wished they had done it that way, so I’m trying to use their experience to my advantage.

A side note to the theme of this thread: This evening my gf was really really horny. Not just “in the mood” but “Fuck me hard now with your big hard dick you sexy stud” kind of horny :D

Afterwards (actually, a break half way through) she said something along the lines of: “I love your dick, its so big and long, after having you, I can’t go back to any other dick”.

Funny how she only admits that size matters when she is crazed out on hormones etc. There is simply no denying it: bigger is better. But I do agree with the comment that Workworkout made: “Why beat yourself up over it?”

Just do PE, get bigger, be happy! End of story!
I don’t see the point in questioning it, we know it’s true.
I also don’t see the point in formulating experiments and tests to see if it matters, maybe a test to see what the limits of pleasureability are, bot not just to prove that “size matters”, we know it does!

You must feel pretty high of yourself now, huh? Bastard… :D
Sounds like your girlfriend is finally getting the hang of it, congratulations! :)

Ofcourse you are right, this is a fact.

come on spiro, with 7’75” nbp you re 19,7 cm and that is f…ing HUGE

time to work on girth , buddy !

It’s not enough length for me. My gf seems to really like deep penetration,
and I can’t yet hit bottom from all positions. Besides, I’d rather get another inch or so “just in case.”

I don’t want to end up going for just girth, wishing I could then have a bit more length, and then find I’m unable to hang enough weight to make that happen.

>>>It’s not enough length for me.

In the beginning, and even to this day, *sometimes* my length is a bit painful for my gf.

That is, when I go in all the way, occasionally I hit her cervix etc and she gets an unpleasant little jolt…..

However, on occasion, I can slam in the whole length and she just keeps begging for more.

In the beginning, I would be lucky if she would take more than half the length. See the difference a year or two together can make?

Vaginas adapt, that’s for sure. Just keep going until she says no more, and then a bit later on, when she doesnt complain about pain anymore, go for bigger!!!

I just have to jump in here.

The fact that we’re here at Thunder’s and yanking on our dicks shows that we are not happy with our size. I’d have to guess most of us have bundled many non-sex related issues into our dick insecurities. Unfortunately we bring all these issues and insecurities into the bedroom and this puts our women in a bad spot. No matter how considerate and sensitive our women are about our insecurities, we tend to look for the worst. They really can’t win with this scenerio and we unwittingly add to our own insecurities.

Now on the other hand, with a little shift in perspective about Mr. dildo, he becomes your ally and not the enemy. Intellectually we all know that our women like our dicks. Just because they sometimes moan louder with a dildo doesn’t mean they like it better. As was mentioned before, we’d react the same way with a tighter pussy - so what? The most important thing is how much pleasure our women have in bed. With this in mind, the dildo is one of many tools we can use to highten the experience. Our “swinging richards” will always be the main tool, but a well placed dildo and a skillful tongue (can you part your hair with your tongue?) can make your woman ecstatic. And when she’s happy, you can bet you’ll be happy. And of course, this kind of experimentation always leads to more variety and more and more tools. I’m sure some people here have an enormous tool box next to the bed.

I bought my wife a 9 X 6 tool and was surprised with her reaction. She was trying to spare my feelings by not showing too much interest in the dildo over the first few months. When I figured out what she was doing, I stopped asking her what she wanted and just dragged the thing with me every time we hopped in the sack. Using that monster and my tongue leaves her in a quivering puddle. After that, she’s all mine and she’ll do anything I want. Recently she told me I have the most talented tongue she’s ever met. That goes a long way towards erasing dick size issues!

And you know, even if I get to be 9 X 6, I’ll still need the dildo. I haven’t figured out how to get my dick and tongue down there at the same time.

That is why you have to get to 20” ;)

Priapos

Bigknob, is all of the 9” insertable, and how much length does she hide from daylight, or where’s the “high water” mark on that nine inch thing?

Weird I have had different comments from women while using dildos. The one is emphatic that she doesn’t like them. The other liked it, but preferred my dick, and the third didn’t like them either.

I have never observed the reactions many of you here are reporting.

It may be the hardness of the dildo not the size.

A way to settle the debate: Try using a didlo on your girlfriend that is the same size as your penis and observe the results.

Guys.we need to embrace these things!! Listen, I am 7x5.5 NBP. Average. I hate to use cliches, but it is how you use it! Perfect your oral skills, do some kegels so you can last longer and have more control. You want deeper penetration? In missionary, prop her lower back up. GET A LIBERATOR!!

Spiro, was this a vibrator or just a dildo? Also, take this into consideration: While you are pleasuring her with the dildo, she is free of ALL her psychological hangups with sex. This is PURE stimulation JUST for her. Your other hand is probably paying more attention to her sensitive areas (NIPPLES) and she can just sit back, relax and give in to the great feeling.Believe it or not, it is VERY hard for a woman to cum through vaginal sex and the ones that can easily are considered lucky! When a woman is having vaginal sex, the man is pretty much controlling the action. Unless that man is very intuned with this woman, it probably ain’t happening unless she gets on top and controls things. Also, probably in some women’s minds, they get nervous and anxious (“What if he cums first?” Do I smell?” I look fat!” etc) These things are the anti-orgasm.

In summary, don’t get down on yourself. It is a MAJOR turn off for women and will KILL your libido. She likes the dildo? Give it to her!