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Hey guys,

I have finally started having sex with my girlfriend, and she likes it and I do too (well duh), but my erections are still weak and I’m getting f**king tired of it now. It’s just getting stupid. If I have a weak hardon when I’m actually fucking my (hot in my opinion) girlfriend then what the hell is wrong with me?

I have even laid off the PE for a few weeks in hopes of getting really hard, PC work only, but barely any change!

I hate to start a boring thread like this but can the guys that PE vigorously and STILL have rock hard erections post their full routine (incl. PC routine), and also say how hard you tend to squeeze while jelqing and stretching, whether you warmup/down or what, how long you stretch for before slapping it around for circulation etc.

Thanks a lot,
awwwshucks

Have you tried the supplements yohimbe or L-arginine yet? Those seem to work really good for harder erections. You can also get them for pretty cheap at GNC.

How old are you?

If below 40 you are probably getting performance anxiety.

Jelqing can exhaust the tissues but the erection comes back to normal within hours.

Nothing special about my routine. I’ve done a 30 min jelq session and nailed the wife right afterwards (but this was after a good 6 or more months in and I was very acclimated to the exercise).

Thanks for the replies so far, guys…

elite8, I haven’t tried either of those yet but I’ll be sure to check them out. I’ve tried gingko biloba and tribulus terrestris. Both of them seemed to help a little, especially when taken together.

luvdadus, I’m 18, and its somewhat true about performance anxiety. Like a lot of us, I feel bad about my dick, so I always think she’s not gonna enjoy it much.

>I feel bad about my dick, so I always think she’s not gonna enjoy it much.
Sounds like you’ve found your problem.

You’ve made some great gains and your current stats are good, time to start viewing your dick in a different light :)

Memento, thanks for the comments and inspiration but I also find it kind of difficult to get a rock hard erection when I’m alone. It always seems fairly squeezable to some extent.

I’m curious to know just how hard you guys consider “rock hard” to be (excluding “as hard as a rock”). Perhaps I have distorted perception of how hard erections are supposed to be?

I think not thinking about your penis or erection quality *might* be the key factor to getting hard. Atleast I have noticed that when you anxiously try to get your dick hard it doesn’t work (focussing your attention on the penis getting erect, & anxiety at the back of your head that I won’t be able to get beyond this degree of hardness… or whatever..)

Instead, think of your girl & the passion/intensity of stimulation at the moment. Leave it upto the little brother to react to her ;-)
I would suggest that you concentrate on the flow of events & think about her & fucking her rather than worry about your dick (don’t worry about him, he will take care of himself). Think about fucking the babe, how sexy she is & giving her a good fuck with your rod. I have noticed the quality of erections when I do it this way (100% erections (works for me).

Read drgmerlin’s posts about orgasm & his girl & you will know what I’m talking about…

Good luck man!

Awww,
When I was 18, my erections pointed towards the ceiling!

I think luvdadus may be onto something. The first couple times I tried to have sex with a new girl, I would get performance anxiety. My cock eventually cooperated when I stopped worrying about it.

If you rule out performance anxiety, consider the following…
Did you injure yourself doing PE? Are you taking any stimulants? Are you getting proper rest? Maybe you’re having sex too often? (although I can’t imagine this would be possible at 18 years old).

Realistically, you can’t expect your erections to be like steel every single time you have sex.

You might consider taking a break from PE and see what happens.

What I consider to be rock-hard: so hard that you can barely squeeze it, and barely bend it.
Like your dick has been made of pure rubber (not latex).

Hope this helps.

I’m just interested if it is just your CS and glans that seems to be softer, and not your CC’s, or is it every part of your dick?

I assume you’re actually doing PC exercises. If not, do them and aside from squeezing the muscles be sure to go for some long holds. Another thing to consider is your physical shape in general. Are you actually in somewhat decent shape or a bit slothful? Rarely does one think about it, but sex can be alot of physical work. Doesn’t feel like it ‘cause you’re fuckin’ and it feels great! Fuckin’ on the floor is the only time you could ever get that nasty of a rug burn on the knees and not feel it happening. Point being, you might not be in as good of shape as you think. Pretty hard to maintain an erection while jogging around, sex can be physically demanding as well. Lots of muscles come into play that you don’t normally use that way unless your one hell of a dancer. Consider all the above in all posts and I think you may sort this one out to your advantage. good luck. groa

Your problem sounds mostly like performance anxiety.

Things will work themselves out after you bust a few nuts in her presence.

That kind of stuff used to happen to me too. Call it growing pains. Keep fuckin’!!!

just curious awwwshucks, what was your routine when you first started your routine? those are quite some gains. I’ve just started PE and my pre-PE is similiar to yours, so i need some encouragement and more reading up on PE. Can anyone also explain the process of squeezing? thankss

I had a period where my erections were what I considered, “spongy” after a few weeks of PE. Some of it I know was performance anxiety, but some of it was from an exhausted penis. Since then I have been steadily PEing and the erections are now rock hard. However, if my mind begins to even think about whether or not my dick is “satisfying” to my wife, it causes problems. My advice to you is to nail her good next time and don’t think about whether or not she is gonna like it, as they say “Just do her!”

IW8

Thinking and sex don’t mix sometimes. It seems to me you have to stay in a primitive mode or you will analize your way right out of your woody. Anyone understand what I’m getting at?