I am just trying to figure out if there is any benefit to going above 7 in length, because I can clearly see at least two downsides (can’t grind, might hurt girl and ruin it often) and can’t find ANY benefit (positions? but if you get some new ones, you lose being able to grind in old ones).
I believe I am misunderstanding your post, but actually I find that above 7 I am grinding most of the time when I am in a missionary or downward dog position because jabbing/ thrusting causes discomfort, at times.
really big. want the biggest.