last night

After doing some heavy squeezes under the blanket last night wifey suddenly decided she wants sex. During the exercises my shaft got very expanded. When she took hold of of my dick I saw a very surprised look in her eyes.
She didn’t say anything but from her expression I understood that she was going to ask herself why she felt a much dicker shaft than before.
Good idea to do some squeezes before entering her:)

Andreas

Ask her how come she looked so surprised last night, if she liked it, and if she noticed a difference internally.

-BH

Well was there any difference in the sex you had with her? Did she react differently? Did she come quicker, harder, or more often? Did she seem to enjoy it more than normal? Was it better for you in any way? Do you think it was physical or mental (knowing that you were swollen)? All these and other questions. Don’t just drop a teaser like that out there without finishing the story.

During the first 2-3 minutes we both felt a very stretched vagina which put us in new dimension of our screw history. Unfortunately she got wetter than usual soon after so the advantage of my swollen member was gone.
At the end before cuming I think the whole thing is more mental. For me knowing being bigger than usual I fucked with more power imagining even more than I actually posses with the net effect for my wife responding with a much more aroused vagina.
This night I will try it out again to get more feedback from her.
I am still unsure whether to tell her about our PE or not. It might be better to wait a few months and to get some permanent gains first. On the other hand since getting some gains is a very slow process- in a few months she might have lost her memories how big/large my penis was before due to getting used to small gains over a long time?

Cheers

Andreas
Bangkok

Tell her. This is the perfect segueway if you are ever going to tell her. Telling my girlfriend about it was the best thing that I could have done for my progress. It’s really great when she looks at it and just says, “you’ve been doing your exercises haven’t you?” or when she comments that she can feel me going deeper than before. And those aren’t even the most important reasons I like her knowing.

Her response will likely depend on how you tell her. For example, instead of telling my girlfriend that I have been doing PE for a while, I told her that I found this kooky place and everyone there is probably full of shit but that I would go ahead and try this just for the hell of it. This approach went over much better than saying that you’ve been hiding something from her. A white lie, perhaps, but completely harmless. Besides you can tell her the full story once she is less skeptical and has seen positive results.

In your position, I would start it off by asking if she noticed a difference. Wait until you’re finished having sex of course. Most importantly, keep it relaxed and light-hearted. If she had noticed a difference or not doesn’t matter, go ahead and use the approach I used. You just found it a couple days ago and thought you’d give it a try. It might be good to act shocked if she does notice a difference. Good show, that. Is this deceptive. Yes, but only in part. As I said you can clear your conscience at a more comfortable moment.

She will likely think that you are sensitive about your size already or that you think she wants more. This is, in my observation, the biggest issue to overcome because deep down inside even the biggest of us is a little sensitive. You have to put on your best poker face and let her know that you are doing this to satisfy yourself or - in my scenario - out of experimentation. Let her know that you know she is happy and that she would love you no matter what size you were. Then the magic phrase: “besides, wouldn’t it be cool if this crap really worked?”. If enough confidence is displayed up to that point, that phrase is like fly paper.

My bastard side has come out a bit on this response I think. I don’t want to give you the impression that lying or any sort of manipulation are good modes of communication. They never are. But this falls into the category of deception reserved for suprise parties and gifts. In the end all deception will be fully understood or - if not entirely forgiven - swept under the rug as a really minor offense.

But the short answer is to tell her. I’m done.

KingUbu,

thanks for your very balanced posting. Indeed it might be better to come up with the truth. Sharing such intimated exercises with our gf shows also unlimited trust.

Cheers

Andreas
Bangkok

Listen to Ubu. Tell her.

Yeah man, tell her…..if she’s anything like my wife she’ll treat your cock like a new toy. I’ve only been PE’in for a few weeks, but last night my wife came home in the early hours after a party, climbed into bed, sucked me hard and rode my cock like a true porn star(something she can only now do thanks to my new hardness). Plus it’s nice we can chat about my progress and what type of new cock she’d like.

Tell her :)

Indeed it does.

Guys

Hate to be the grim reaper but most relationships don’t last so be careful who you tell because that cute little babe next to you could turn into the biggest bitch you ever met in your life and her sole purpose in the universe could to be to make you miserable. I know I know not my girl, let me tell you about the thing that changes……………………………………. .

Dino

Never looked at it like this. Kind of scarry

DLD

It really can be, it seems like you and Jenn have something really nice but not all women are Jenn

Dino

I really don’t know if it’s a good idea to tell the truth to your gf, everybody need to have a kind of secret garden, PE is mine, sure she will notice one day, but i don’t know if i really want to hear “but…you have a bigger dick don’t you?” or “what did you make to your sex he’s too big i can’t take it”. But i’m sure it won’t be the case because if you sleep often with your gf (like every day :) ) she will not see the slow increase in lenght and in girth that you made each day. It’s not like if you go sleeping one day and when you wake up you have a dick 5” inch longer.

But i really fear the day she will notice AND ask :(

Frenchy

The only thing my girlfriend noticed was the discoloration from PE. I’ll never tell her about it. The only other person in my life who knows I do it is my therapist.

I guess that half inch of length gained ain’t enough to make her notice.

AndreasF,

I tried that with my wife this morning. I did heavy erect squeezes while we were watching tv in bed. She asked what I was was doing and I said “my usual pe but a little earlier than usual.” She has known all along about the pe but just thought it was a male ego thing (she’s mainly right there!). She lifted the blanket and I did a horse squeeze and I thought her eyes were going to pop out :D . A few minutes later she asked when I will be finished strangling my dong! She had become sooo wet watching my swollen dude that she climbed ,on top of me , and ground me to a pulp!

My dick is still a little sore from that extra workout. My wife, at breakfast asked, if my wiener will someday stay that size. “As long as I keep doing pe.” She took me aback by exclaiming ” keep doing those exercises but I WANT more thickness not length. You’re long enough!” I just couldn’t believe she said that in such a matter-of-fact voice. Okay, I said “how much thicker?” Holding up her juice glass “this size”. Damn, another inch to go in girth and, for my ego, another .25 in length.

The size she wants? a 7x6.

A very interesting and happy Easter morning :leftie: