Is it okay for my kid to do PE?

Hey guys first of all I want to say this is a great fourm! I have a question.

My son is 15 and turns 16 in Febuary. Is it safe for him to use PE techniques? I don’t think he’s going to grow anymore naturally, since he is already taller than me. Is there any reason he shouldn’t be doing them? He’s been stretching, jelqing and doing kegels for a while now, and has noticed gains.

Thanks for you help guys!

Nothing scientific supporting my response, but I would say maybe a little too early. Just b/c hes taller doesnt mean he isnt going to grow in the johnson department. Besides, if he starts now he’ll most likely end up a porno star by 22, is that what you want?

I’m not sure why it would be any less safe for him than for an adult, but he is still at an age in which I would think he might still develop sexually on his own. Any reason you don’t think he should wait until he is 18 or over?

Just out of curiosity how did he hear about PE and how did you find out he knew about it?

Though I can certainly understand being self conscious about size, is this sending the right message at this age do you think?

Bottom line of course is that he is your son and you make those decisions and of course that is respected.

It should also be noted that the forum has a “no minors” policy, so junior doesn’t get his own account until he’s 18.

Hmmm…wangthang, he has told you about his routine and the fact that he has seen gains?? Pretty damn open relationship there. Is he a couple of steps ahead of you, as far as PE goes??

Or is it you that has seen gains?

Wangthang,

As a parent of young men who do PE, I would suggest that he wait a couple more years before he starts. Boys typically don’t quit growing until around 25 or thereabouts. There is no reason to think that he might not gain a bit more just naturally due to growth process.

At this age, boys have a mixed view of themselves as it is (so do girls) and to give the message to your son that he is somehow inadequate in the penis department probably isn’t a good idea. If he asks you about it, tell him the truth and let him decide for himself, but I would not push the idea on to him. Your post was a bit confusing here, is your son jelqing and stretching, or are you the one who has been doing this and has seen gains?

And desol is correct in that your son cannot join the forum until he is 18, by then he should have enough information to make a judgement for himself. Personally, I think its great that he knows about PE, open relationships of this kind are best for families and you and your son have what most don’t, communication.

I agree with Sunny that you may not want mess him up psychologically.

As for if he’s hit his genetic potential yet, I think that is irrelevant. I doubt that stretching and jelqing would do anything to interfere with natural growth. One thing it could get in the way of is measuring gains, but that doesn’t really matter, does it? More dick is more dick :)

If he can start out early I believe his potential for gains is greater than if he had started after he finished growing.

Tell him if he wants it, go for it. Boys aren’t dumb just because they’re 16. He’s unlikely to tear it off, if he consults you this openly about stuff of this nature then he’s more than likely to get shitloads of advice from you anyway.

He should be old enough to determine for himself whether he wants to be hung, and how so.

And now for something totally different.. this quote really casts your Ren icon in a whole different light. :D

I think that he is going to do them regardless what you tell him. If my dad asked anyone if they thought I dhould drink beer at 16 I would still have done it regardless the answer. At 16 he is not allowed as a member here but he can lurk the open forums and learn quite a lot. Hopefully he will learn how not to injure himself.

I have to agree with luvdadus, the only issue a 16yr old would have with PE is being over zealous. Young guys have a tendency to not understand “long term goals”. They want it now, now, now!. If he takes is slow, understands that this is for the long term and is careful then Go for it.

If I knew about PE when I was 16 I would have been doing it.

I don’t know if the start age should be 16 or 18, but the growth potential is tremendous. Wish I knew about this when I was that age.

I believe you mean growing mentally? ;) I’ve been physically (inc. penis) the same size since I was 14.

Back to this topic.. As others have already pointed, he’ll do it whatever you tell him. That’s why I’d rather act more or less like a coach giving him tips, possible routines and stuff like that. That way I think that there would be less room for an injury.

Wow thanks for all the replies guys. I’m glad I have a very open relationship with my son. He’s a smart kid and of course doesn’t want to injure his penis. He always does the hot wrap before and after. So, after reading these posts I guess it is okay for him to do it. He is mature enough to handle it. I’m wondering, how does a penis grow “naturally” as in without PE techniques? Does the penis grow more cells, or what?

Well a man’s sexual maturity maxes at age 18. My advice would be not to start until then. But it’s not a set age so I’ll say 17.5 and beyond to be safe because you don’t even know what kind of damages you can be doing if your still growing and attempting to do PE.