I also started this as part of an overall life makeup.
Never had issues with my size or complaints, none of the heart breaking stories I read here (truly hearth breaking).
I’m not in the US, we have mandatory military service, so I saw lots of flaccid penises. That pretty much cleared my head for good from any issues, after watching lots of porn in my teens, this was real world, and in the real world there aren’t many monsters.
I gained some weight over the years (40 pounds, started working out again and lost most of it). During this time I was curios to know what the average penis size is, and found that I’m average length but over average girth. It was nice. Found a few posts regarding girth on thunder and pegym, started to look into it and it looked like people actually gained volume! I was intrigued with all the info and with the possibility to improve something I was sure impossible to. Started some easy routines, saw gains and improvement, and here I am.
Great job with the weight loss, keep it up! You’ll see how more confident you will be in general, and no doubt you are going to see a big difference in you visible penis size and much improved erections. I have had some erections so strong, they woke me up.
Looking at other guys gives you a different view at their junk than the one you have on your own- especially if you are overweight. So avoid those comparisons. You are not small, not length wise and not girth wise.
Thank you very much for the incentive and also for the similar story! I’ll keep working on PE and also loosing weight!