I'm getting so lazy

It’s not that I don’t really want an 8 or 9x5.5… I just don’t feel like putting on that darn PM everyday. I’m really cutting back a lot and slacking off even on my stretching and jelqing.

NO sex for some time either. I get it about 3-4 times a month and usually only within 3 out of 4 weeks a month. (ONe week off for my wife’s period).

So I’ve been kind of inactive in many ways.

I think I might start shrinking soon. No motivation… sigh.

I hope you are not contageous.

Some lazy Pe’ers do gain anyway.

What the hell is that all about? You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. So your down and we all get that way sometimes. At least you have your health! So your not getting enough sex, try being single after being married dude.

I was married too for 11 years and now single. I lost my dream house that took ME 4 years of my life to build and had to sell it. I have lost my cash and allot of my assets just because the bitch decided she wasn’t happy and wanted to be single. I didn’t know it but in the state I live in if a spouse wants out, there is not a thing you can do about it and they take half.

I know exactly what you are feeling and that is what motivates me everyday. I do PE as my own stress relief.

Just remember Rambone, life can always be worst than what you have right now.

Note to self: never get married.

Well it is the middle of February and that little rodent said there would be 6 more weeks of this shit.
Comforting to know I’m not the only one suffering from “seasonal affectiveness disorder”.

I just came seem to get shit done lately. Of course hibernating a lot doesn’t help matters.
Well back to chipping away here…. this too will change soon enough.

Maybe spending some quality time with a group of young energetic cheerleaders would help you get your pep back.

I think I’m even lazier at the moment, skipping classes at university, wanting to start hanging… hasn’t happened yet. Perhaps it’s because I had 2 weeks of exams, and I took ephedra and caffeine for a month when studying for my exams, and now I stopped.

Hang in there Ram, I think everyone goes through some sort of phases. Perhaps you just need to re-focus on why you do what you do. What motivates you? Remind yourself how sweet victory tastes, how good the view is from the top of the mountain and the climb will seem more than worth it.

Itsgottime: I wouldn’t rule out marriage all together. However, I would explore all the safety measures I could before getting hitched: pre-nup, trust account, very long engagements, wood chipper. ;)

“Don’t give up. Just go on!” Woo Woo. Man, way too much Blue’s Clues. I have to stop watching TV with my daughter. That magenta is looking pretty hot.

Sorry for venting there Ram but I had a tuff day yesterday.

I’m going to give you some advise that I wish someone had done for me before it was too late.

You have to work at a marriage and keep things exciting somehow. Take at least 2 weekends a month and take the wife out on a date. I made the big mistake of letting life get in the way and took things for granted. Before I knew it my ex wanted to go out with the girls once a month for “girls night out”. Big mistake because I found out later that most of the girls we’re single. After a while it was twice a month then before I knew it she says she wants to be single again. I guess she was having too much fun. Anyway, I think you get the picture here.

It’s better to be unhappy single than unhappily married!

Note to self: prenup.

Note to everyone here!

Believe me it will be worth it in case things don’t work out.
I don’t care if you don’t have a dime to your name. It’s much better to work out what would would happen if things don’t work when you two can still talk. It still amazes me as to how two people that can be so close and share so much to turn around and be so vindictive toward each other. It’s like becoming enemies.

Ram,

just keep going, my man.

But….take care of the wife, in many different ways. You saw what happened to some members…;)