I’m Back

Hey i took Some time off from posting my progress. I am around the 7in mark for length and around 5in for girth. I’m fine with my size since it seems to be fine with my girlfriend. (Which is a different girl from the last) . I do Plan on continuing PE to get bigger. I also Have been having a ejaculation problem lately though which is horrible for my self esteem. I have been ejaculating much earlier than I would like. I think it’s my girlfriend. She seems to be the most experienced girl I’ve been with and when we do have sex it is like a waterfall down there which i wasnt Used to. I know That’s part of it but I’m trying to edge more and see if that helps.

Nice keep going for your goals. Yup, edging and kegels! I use to have Premature Ejaculation but edging fixed that.

My ex would also get super wet without too much foreplay.

I trained myself to cum fast when I first started watching porn.. My sessions were 1-3 minutes. I also got rid of porn, it would excite me too much.

Edging was the best thing that happened to me.

Welcome back, best of luck!

Thank you for the welcoming. I don’t know if this is correct yet. But i have Noticed doing kegels less (while still doing PE) has been better for my erection quality. I feel like i was doing it too much before maybe resulting in overtraining. Edging i have Recently started and will see how my next sex sessions goes. I’m trying to increase on the amount of foreplay, before there wasn’t much foreplay.

Maybe over training. Or maybe less works better for you. We are all different.

I believe the first week, I was already seeing results from edging.

I was a minute man.. I constantly had to let her know when to stop, every 15 seconds or so. She worked with me but you could feel the frustration, we both did. I’m glad, I did something about it.

By the 3-4th week, it finally paid off when she would ride me fast, going wild trying to make me cum but I was laughing in joy because I was finally in control.

Same here man, with my first girlfriend, we mostly did some kissing/touching/fingers then straight to sex. Now, in my other relationships they value foreplay more. I’m still young so there’s much I need to learn about sex

Now, I make sure it’s all about her. I been reading more on foreplay and teasing her so much, to the point where she’s begging for you. Some guys just want to bust a nut and don’t take the time to let her cum first.

I agree with practicing your edging in order to build some stamina. I think the problem is most likely largely psychological and you are probably so focused on not cumming quickly that it ramps up your anxiety and then you ejaculate quickly thereafter.

In the meantime while you are sorting it out go to Walgreens or the drug store and buy a small tube of anbesol. It is used on toothaches. Take a very small pea sized amount and put a dab on your frenulum. It will desensitize you a bit. It won’t solve the root of the issue but it may give you the small boost in confidence you need.

Try reverse kegels to help with premature ejaculation. When you feel the urge to cum, slow things down a bit and do some reverse kegels. It really helps to take the edge off.

Hey guys thanks for the replies, they are all helpful. Lately I’ve been doing something new. Normal warm up, about 30-50 jelqs in a medium erection, BUT i end With cool water instead of hot. It seems to be working just fine, I’m waiting to have sex to see how long i last Lol

I have tried distracting myself during it which does help. I’m in a horny mood lol

I decided to take today as a rest day since i edged last night not for long, about 20 minutes. Will train tomorrow. I also Noticed i was One of the people that was masturbate for a short period when i was Younger so that makes me wonder maybe that’s partial reason why i dont Last long. We’ll find out NEXT TIME I GET INTIMATE I CANT WAIT

Yeah, that’s what I learned when I was young, good to know you’re in training mode to last longer.

Treat edging like your training for 3 miles. No porn, lay down, close your eyes, have your favorite playlist playing, and breathe comfortably - don’t hold it. Overtime you will increase your time and it will show in the bedroom.

@consciousness i will Definitely try to keep edging. I want to be a master in the bedroom. Anyways training today was short warm up with the helicopter swings, 50 slow jelqs with an 80% erection, cool down with cool water.

I have taken yesterday and today off I’ve been busy with work and my girlfriend and I broke up. I broke up with her because i felt like she wasn’t giving me enough of her time and didn’t treat me like before. I do not know if it’ll be permanent, I’m honestly waiting for her to hit me up telling me she’ll change. If not I’ll have to move on and take it as a lesson, I’ll do some training tomorrow.

Godspeed. Know that there are other partners out there that don’t require so much negotiation to make it work. Love and passion are not metrics for compatibility. However, love is love.

Thanks man that actually helped. Unfortunately, I’m a sucker for this girl. I know this will be a frustrating road especially since we work together. Anyways thanks again for the advice.

Sorry to hear, often you can have that happen with relationships, time will tell. Keep up the good PE work.

I would never have used helicopters swings to warm up. Great idea