tug, If you’re 6” girth, don’t be afraid to try the Magnum XL. It won’t be too big at all.
I think the ideal size can be different depending on your situation. A married guy can PE himself up to much larger sizes and his wife will adapt. A guy who’s sleeping around better not get nearly as big unless he wants occasional problems where it won’t fit.
8x6 is pushing it for pussies that aren’t accustomed to that size.
Doh! RWG, I just re-read your post and found out that you’ve already stated pre-PE size. Apologies for asking the already answered. You started out quite large, making you anything but regular ;) .
I think there’s a lot more in the XL label than there is differences in smaller sizes. When I think XL I think really, really, really large dick. Put another way: I thought that someone that uses XLs couldn’t possilbly use anything else. I would have never even considered buying XLs prior to this thread, as I can still fit into regulars! The fit is very snug, but I don’t mind the pressure; all that jelqing has probably made me immune to it!
I may just try the large size first. Upon gaining my goal 1” EBPL, I’ll likely spring for the XLs.
tug, You’ve somehow been fooled into thinking six inches girth isn’t really, really large already! The XL’s are only 1/4” longer than the normal size ones, and the Trojan Magnum is 5.25” girth unstretched.
If you accidentally pick up some XL’s, you’ll find they will work fine for you. I think you’d also prefer them greatly over the normal size condoms once you try one.
Oh, it’s been a while since I’ve been able to drop by this wonderful place filled with priceless information and opinions, but it’s great to be back. Sunshine and Anna……thanks for chiming in on this subjuect…..again.
RWG, I’ve got some catchin’ up to do around here. It looks like you’ve done some valuable research and developement. Yeah, and I’d love to find a thorough study on vagina size performed here in the states. Ahh, what a variety there would be……….
I’ll just echo what was stated earlier 8x6 will be great for the widest variety of vaginal sizes………. Some of us like the size queens though. Well, maybe only a few of us……I guesss.
Struggling with a peyronies injury during sex and loss of size after having been into PE.
It looks like the XLs are worth a try. Since I’m short (5’7”), it’ll be interesting to see the response of the checkout girl to see little me buying big honkin’ rubbers. Thanks for the heads up MDC. Honestly, had it not been for you, I never would have even considered the XLs.
It may look like I’ll not be needing them for a spell, however.
Tonight I broke up with a girl I was falling for. She’s the asian girl that I’ve talked about on numerous occassions. She is very, very special. Because of timing and various things going on in our lives (both students in different cities) we would not have been able to see each other and things couldn’t realistically have worked out. It’s hard giving up something so rare and so beautiful.
Sorry if this is a little off topic; it’s just something I needed to say. I’m pretty heartbroken right now.
But that’s life right? The good comes with the bad.
tug_monkey I’m sorry to hear of your pain. Why don’t you talk to her about just keeping in contact over the internet or phone so that you don’t lose touch with eachother altogether and can get back as bf and gf in time when things are more possible. She sounds like a gem which could be lost forever if you don’t make sure you keep intouch and keep those bonds atleast on the back burner until time changes things more favourably. If you remain emotionally tight with eachother, even as friends, on the internet or phone, she will always have strong affection for you, which can easily turn into something stronger with a woman when things become more possible. But if you let those bonds wither, things will be less likely to work out between you two in the future. Good luck.
There is one thing stronger than all the armies in the world: and that is an idea whose time has come.
Thanks for you encouraging words, they’ve had a large impact on me. I’ve taken your advice and we’ve agreed to keep in touch via email, phone and to see each other from time to time. I’m still sad to lose her, but am glad that I’ll keep her friendship. Gottagrow, don’t stop dispensing that good advice, your words have made positive impact on my life.
Sorry to hear it but thanks to email like gottagrow said you can in touch and stay close and maybe next summer and on time off from school you can be right back in each others arms. Unless of course you or her meets someone new.
I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work. Thomas Edison (1847-1931)
Thanks man. Meeting a really cool chick can be a hard thing. There are so many girls out there that are wonderful, but to find one that’s a good fit for you and one that likes you back is a rare thing indeed. At least this is true in my case.
Well it’s either the single life or dating. Since I like sex and company, I think I’ll continue dating. I almost feel guilty aspiring to meet another woman. However, based on the situation, it’s all I can do.
I’ll continue to expand my dick, my confidence, and my mind in preparation for the next girl that’ll steal my heart.
Did the “trick” to see if my girlfriend could take a bigger size than me. Asked her if I had 2 clones one with a bigger dick and one with a smaller, which would she sleep with? She said bigger. Damn, lol.
””“”“Ideal penis size for women”“”“”” you know after thinking about the ideal penis size for women, well I really don’t think women should have a penis of any size. That’s just my preference though.
I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work. Thomas Edison (1847-1931)
twat, Dino… You made this dead horse a little more vivid. :up::)
"Be aware that there are several schools of thought here as well. Some seem to go with the hard and heavy approach. The sessions are brutal. You can hear them talking to their dick: You better grow mofo or I will punish you even harder tomorrow! Others seem to favor a more tender approach. Always listening to what their member is saying while massaging it gently and singing to it with a soft voice. If it is moody and not happy with new behavior, they always listen and are very understanding."
THANK YOU Anna and Sunshine for answering!
Ideal penis size for women? That is like asking why men don’t understand women.
I do not necessarily agree that talking about penis size or past lovers is asking for punishment though. Depends on the relationship. I have been married to the same wonderful woman for 15+yrs. And we talk about it. Not usual subject but it is something we have and do talk about. I know her ex-husband was naturally extremely well endowed (they bought a novelity ruler that said he was meant to breed cattle…lol) and it doesn’t bother me in the slightest. 1) Because he is her EX-husband so obviously his dick didn’t make up for everything and 2) Because she flat says that his size in no way contributed to his sexual prowess.
When I first decided to start NPE (very recent) I talked to my wife about it. She was confused at first because she thinks I have the “ideal” cock. Her exact words were, “…but it fits me so well. It fits so good inside me and fits my mouth so good. And you have such a nice looking cock. The shape and look and everything…” So we talked about it and I explained that I in no way wanted to be huge just wanted to add some. Explaining it was mostly something I wanted but that she may well enjoy. She thought it over, read some web info (here, DLD’s forum, other stuff) and now totally supports me. We each understand what I am after and that I have no desire to become a bat-swinger.
I know big size isn’t what turns my wife on. In fact in a male-typical-media-hyped loss of consiouness I bought her a fairly big dildo. I buy her toys from time to time and this time I got a bigger than normal toy. Just now measuring it, the insertable length is a touch over 7.5” and the widest girth is a touch over 6”. Know where that toy spends it’s time? In the drawer. She can take it and says it doesn’t hurt but she doesn’t like it because it is too big. It doesn’t fit her right she says.
My wife and I have great sex and are very open about our past experiences, likes/dislikes, wants, and desires. That came with time. No, we don’t want blow-by-blows (no pun intended) of past sexual encounters but casual discussions of them have actually improved our sex.
And Tug, not to be an ass, but didn’t you post a thread on Aug 30th about this Asian girl saying you just recently met and haven’t had sex with? Seems that less than a week is a bit much for being in pain. If I am incorrect I apologize in advance and mean no disrespect.
7”X6” NBPEL. I’m 6x6NBPEL and I usually hurt woman they say I’m too thick for them but when they are hot enough and so wet they want me to pound it in deeper that’s why I wish I had one more inch at 7”NBPEL. I’m at 7BPEL.