I have been thinking about your original post and your concern and I think this:
When we get into PE in a serious way, part of the fallout of doing what we do is that we begin to define ourselves by our penises, so focused on them as we become.
We forget in that gain-thing that we are a wealth of other marvelous attributes: our senses of humor, our sensitivities, our warmth and our capacities to share and give to our partners. It is these qualities that attract women (or men) to us primarily. Maybe we need to focus more on them sometimes than on how big we are?