I think Im done with PE

Im now starting to hurt my gf when she is on top. I am only about 6.9 inch bp or 6.4 inch nbp. I have gained only .4 inche since starting PE, pure stretch routine, in about 4 weeks give or take. I still think I need more length for other positions but her on top is my favorite so Im done. Although I think that I should keep doing kegels. They would still be a benifit to me. I guess now Ill just be looking for exersizes to last longer durring sex without any girth or length increases.

Later

Oh yea, forgot to say that Im hoping I drop back down to 6 inch nbp so I dont hurt my gf at all. Sex isnt fun for me if pain is involved.

Later

Ancient Chinese Proverb: If you have a seven inch pole and a 5 inch hole, only insert 5 inches!

xeoph,

Too bad your girlfriend couldn’t handle it comfortably. But after only 4 weeks, chances are pretty good that you’ll lose most of your gains. I’ve always put a number on my goal size, but with the caveat that it must fit in my wife comfortably. So far she has no problem with 8 and a fraction BPEL, and she’s only 5’ tall.

Xeoph,

I would not give in quite yet. The vagina is known to accomadate larger objects over time. Keep giving it her good she will get used to it and probably enjoy it after awhile.

xeoph,

Are you sure you’re not hitting her cervix?

I second memento’s question. The only solution? Grow longer so you slide on past her cervix :D

You’re lucky because every woman I was ever with took my 6 1/4 EBPL too easily. Even at 7 1/4 now my girlfriend has no trouble and has handled more. I did have one woman my 6 1/4 could hit her cervix but she loved it and went crazy when I got into her cul de sac for a moment once. Maybe you and her can experiment and see if you can find your way to her cul de sac past her cervix. That might not be painful for her. Women are said to have intense orgasms from that. If she likes it you may want to even grow longer so as to consistently reach into it. I hope it all works out for the best for you and her.

So whats your excuse for not continuing girth exercises?! lol

I wouldnt give up just yet, even if you only due girth questions.

I suspect that most of those who hurt their partner just don’t know how to fuck properly ;)

I read somewhere that most of the women can handle 9x7 just fine if their vaginas are primed properly, ie, in tenting and ballooning state, where cervix is not easily hit, like after a good oral orgasm :)

xeoph

I would reconsider if I were you. I had to take a break from pe when I got to about 7.5” in length. after a few month rest the wife was no longer complaining and liking it better than ever now at just short of 8”. It takes a little time for her to adjust to your size and for you to learn the right pace and angles. You’ll eventually get it though.

Im surprised at all the replys but there is a lot of info here.

First of my gf is small 5’ 2”.

Second when we fuck, which I just got done doing doggie, missionary, and sorta a wierd missionary with her legs up by my shoulders, when I go in all the way I feel a dead stop. She cant take all of it before I hit a wall, Im not sure what the terms are or parts of the body. Im happy I just got done doing all these positions because that should give the people that know what they are talking about some good info to maybe help me. I would think through these angles if it was something I could go around, I would have. I dont know enough though.

Third, this is for anyone who can help, if I hit this wall several times repeatedly (on accident) she gets a sharp pain, maybe a cramp. It doesnt go away untill I have my dick out of her for a few seconds. Later she will have pain in the same spot and will be sore for the next day.
(I hit this spot from every angle we have tried)

Last, since my gf is small she is very tight. If she tightens her cervix before I am in I cant go in (its fun after Im in though, she does that cause I like it). It usually hurts cause I streach her out, she told me stop getting bigger all together, she doesnt like any bigger.

Help me if you can!

Later

Good for you. I say all the more to ya.

xeoph, you might want to learn the jaxtaposition between pleasure and pain when you have sex with you gf. This would allow you to use the right length according to your wife’s demands, since the pussy can adjust, if she can take only 2” that day use that, it will satisfy her. You should also give her some level of control over penetration so that over some minutes she can adjust.

Penetrate gradually, the sudden contraction of the pussy could also be due to fear of getting hurt, my gf has shut me out on a number of times when I want to fuck her with a 9.3”x7” after PE size monster. She would usually sense that the dick is abit to big on attempted penetration. Go slowly to stimulate her. If you have succeeded in penetrating take it slowly and let her enjoy, don’t rum the poor pussy let her control the game

Unless this is the girl you intend to marry some day, you should keep up the PEing buddy. I mean, you’ve made great gains for the little amount of time you’ve been PEing. Bet you’ll be kicking yourself in the ass if/when the time comes that you are no longer in a relationship with her and stopped PEing months and months ago, then hook up with some chick who keeps beckoning to you, “Go DEEPER please!! DEEPER! Please!! You’re really all the way in already?” (Yes, I’ve been through that in the middle of a fuck, if you must know. :o ) Honestly, if you’ve got too much for her to handle, don’t go in all the way. How do you think the dudes with 9 and 10 inch dongs manage? It should make you feel special that you’ve got a girl who can barely fit it all. On a side note though….damn man, I wish I could find a 5’2 girl who could barely handle 6” like that.