It’s because women aren’t savvy to the whole grower/shower thing, in most cases. My woman is, but that’s because she is a member here. Most women see a small flaccid and they automatically assume that it won’t get much bigger, sad as that is, it is a fact with most women. Also, if they see a bulge in a guy’s pants, they will just assume he’s packing. Most women know very little about dicks, or size. Since guys don’t walk around with a hard-on most of the time, a good flaccid says a lot, whether it’s swinging at a nude beach, or packed into your jeans.
Lets say your with some girl for the first time. You’re getting ready to go to bed. The second you drop trou she is judging you, believe it or not. Or if she sees you just out of the shower, or pool, or even in a cool room. Or say she reaches in and grabs your dick before it is completely hard. Even if you pound her later with a big erection, that first feel, touch or sight of it is engraved in her mind, and it will sway her assessment of you even if you do have a big erection, it won’t feel as big to her if she has already determined you are small.
To me it’s important to look good flaccid. First impressions carry a lot of weight.
Penis size is a socially constructed reallity.
In the past people thought the world was flat, but it isn’t. The hardest obstical to knowledge is not ignorance but the illusion of knowledge.(quote by some peorson). I personally am very small when flaccid only 2” but grow to 5.5”.
In lockerrooms or arounn woman I say the flaccid matters.
Know I am wondering how extreme of a grower am I !