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I like my little flaccid

The good news is, it is much easier to gain flaccid size, than it is to gain BPEL. Gaining total volume will make you hang heavy. Pumping, clamping and dry jelqs. Or at least it has been for me.


2003: 6X5 2010: 7X7

No Nukes

Yes, I agree again. :) If my erect size had grown as much as my flaccid, I would be like 9X7. Unfortunately, not. :(


The primary goal of PE should be to make your penis as healthy as possible in both form and function. If you do that, increased size will follow.

Originally Posted by Maxtro
Heh, so it’s a type of male dominance. Wanting to be the the biggest in the group, just in case they accidentally see your penis.

Not really because showers and growers do exist. Amazingly enough, after doing PE I have become even more of a grower than I was before. Even though my BPEL has gone from 5.25 to 6.2, my flaccid has remained at 3 inches. It’ll be a trip if I keep gaining length and my flaccid never changes. It would be amazing going from a 3 inch flaccid to an 8 in erection.

I always had a little fantasy of a woman giving me a BJ when I’m completely soft, then when I start to grow I can see that she’s looking a bit confused, eventually it becomes too much for her and she tries to get it out of her mouth. But I hold the back of her head, not letting her get me out of her mouth, then she starts to panic and making a whining noise. Then I take it our of her mouth and she looks at at in amazement. Maybe in a few years I can do something like that.

As for having a bulge in the pants or walking out of the shower, I can accomplish the same effect with a semi.

The problem is that if one does have a small flaccid and times when has no sexual interest, no bulge will be possible. So that is a weakness.

Imagine if it does grow so big and fat that it locks between her teeth. So you can’t get it out unless it goes down!

Originally Posted by Big Girtha
It’s because women aren’t savvy to the whole grower/shower thing, in most cases. My woman is, but that’s because she is a member here. Most women see a small flaccid and they automatically assume that it won’t get much bigger, sad as that is, it is a fact with most women. Also, if they see a bulge in a guy’s pants, they will just assume he’s packing. Most women know very little about dicks, or size.


That’s why I linked the Seinfeld clip :p
Women need to become more informed. It’s like they’ve never seen the same guy flaccid and erect or they never took a sexual education class.

Originally Posted by Big Girtha
Lets say your with some girl for the first time. You’re getting ready to go to bed. The second you drop trou she is judging you, believe it or not. Or if she sees you just out of the shower, or pool, or even in a cool room. Or say she reaches in and grabs your dick before it is completely hard. Even if you pound her later with a big erection, that first feel, touch or sight of it is engraved in her mind, and it will sway her assessment of you even if you do have a big erection, it wont feel as big to her if she has already determined you are small.

To me it’s important to look good flaccid. First impressions carry a lot of weight.


Heh, women seem vicious.

Originally Posted by djrobins
Imagine if it does grow so big and fat that it locks between her teeth. So you can’t get it out unless it goes down!


Well then it has to come off…….her head that is (:

Originally Posted by Big Girtha
It’s because women aren’t savvy to the whole grower/shower thing, in most cases. My woman is, but that’s because she is a member here. Most women see a small flaccid and they automatically assume that it won’t get much bigger, sad as that is, it is a fact with most women. Also, if they see a bulge in a guy’s pants, they will just assume he’s packing.

I think you are absolutely right.

In fact I don’t think most of the population gets the shower/grower thing. I sure did not get in when I was a teenager in gym class. I assumed since my flaccid increased about 3+ times when erect, everybody’s flaccid got three times as big too. Really screwed up my perception of my size.

I would like a larger flaccid. Women do check out bulges in pants and I like being checked out by women. My flaccid is getting better. Not there yet though.


Last edited by sta-kool : 05-07-2010 at .

Big Girtha and others, who talks about how it is important to have big flaccid - I agree with you. It is so important for me, I can not even describe this :) . Question for guys who increased their flaccid: it becomes just more “bloody” or you have nice size even in cold water or after workout at gym for ex.? What worked better for you?

Girtha said it all for me.


7-20-16: BP: 7.63 NBP 6.75 x 5.75

3-22-17: BP: 8.44 NBP 7.56 x 5.75

If I’ve been going heavy in the gym (I usually do), my flaccid can really turtle, as my blood is trying to get oxygen and nutrients into my worked muscles!
Maybe it’s because I spent so many years sparring and grappling, (where turtling is a positive, practical thing), that my dick is happy to turtle more than should be physically possible from its normal flaccid hang.

It’s a weird thing to know that the only time other guys are very likely to see my dick is when it is guaranteed to look as small as it can get. Thankfully once I got into my 40’s, I stopped caring what any other guy thinks of my dick, or about what they are packing. I’m more likely to be slightly envious of a great six pack because I had one most of my life, and no longer do! :)


Heat makes the difference between gaining quickly or slowly for some guys, or between gaining slowly instead of not at all for others. And the ideal penis size is 7.6" BPEL x 5.6" Mid Girth.

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I like a big flaccid for the same reason other guys in this thread do. It makes a bulge in my pants even when I’m not engorged. It’s a nice thing to have. Before I began PE, my flaccid was so small sometimes that when I would go to use the urinal, it wouldn’t hang over the edge of my underwear and I had to pull on it. Now it is no longer a problem.

@ sta-kool: Wait a second, you joined in 2006 and have become a mod since and you’re still working on your flaccid size? :confused:

Originally Posted by firegoat
If I’ve been going heavy in the gym (I usually do), my flaccid can really turtle, as my blood is trying to get oxygen and nutrients into my worked muscles!
Maybe it’s because I spent so many years sparring and grappling, (where turtling is a positive, practical thing), that my dick is happy to turtle more than should be physically possible from its normal flaccid hang.

It’s a weird thing to know that the only time other guys are very likely to see my dick is when it is guaranteed to look as small as it can get. Thankfully once I got into my 40’s, I stopped caring what any other guy thinks of my dick, or about what they are packing. I’m more likely to be slightly envious of a great six pack because I had one most of my life, and no longer do! :)


Yay an argument for having a small flaccid.

So the reasons I’ve heard for having a big flaccid.

Feeling dominant over other men because your flaccid is bigger than theirs.
Big budge is ‘sexy’
Don’t have to be embarrassed when you are in the locker room
Looks good if you’re walking around naked
A woman may base your erection size on your flaccid

I’d love to hear more reasons.

Max: Here’s another positive for having a shriveled turtling flaccid, following up on what Firegoat said regarding turtling being a positive, practical thing.

According to my urologist, a turtling dick is a healthy dick. Turtling is the dick’s way of protecting itself during dangerous situations or inhospitable environments: a cold room, George Castanza’s, “I was in the pool” excuse, or even ducking back inside the body from a near miss from a basketball. How the dick knows the ball is headed for the crotch is beyond me, but it knows, trust me.

For all the reasons the dick shrivels, as it relates to PE, the post PE session tunica, being badly treated with all the harsh things we do to it, wants to heal in a nice, safe, warm place. So it pulls inside the fat pad to avoid any more abuse after an aggressive session. This is why I feel so strongly we should use an ADS or do what ever we have to do to keep the micro-tears extended so they heal while the penis is elongated, encouraging the growth of new cells to fill the gaps.

“This all sounds good in theory” says the good doctor, but Doc disagrees. She says we should let the penis retract into the body to heal, and that forcing it to stay outside the body during this healing is counter productive. Interestingly, Doc also says that penises that don’t retract, (Showers) are much more likely to have ED issues down the road than those penises that have a strong retraction reflex (Growers).

This subject has been through excessive debate on the forum, and may be a bit off topic on your thread, which seems to deal more with the aesthetics of a small flaccid than the health issues. However, I’ve had two different urologists tell me that a small to average penis that works is much better than a large one that does not. So at least you have two MD’s who agree with you.


2003: 6X5 2010: 7X7

No Nukes

Originally Posted by quickbeam1213
@ sta-kool: Wait a second, you joined in 2006 and have become a mod since and you’re still working on your flaccid size? :confused:

Joined late Nov 2006. I didn’t start actively PE’ing until late Dec 2008. Am not actively PE’ing now.

Flaccid is much improved since starting PE. My Pre-PE flaccid was somewhere in the 2 inch range. If I was driving or sitting at my desk, I was hardly ever aware of my penis. I may as well not had one. Now more like 4, on a really good day 5+.

Originally Posted by Maxtro

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I always had a little fantasy of a woman giving me a BJ when I’m completely soft, then when I start to grow I can see that she’s looking a bit confused, eventually it becomes too much for her and she tries to get it out of her mouth. But I hold the back of her head, not letting her get me out of her mouth, then she starts to panic and making a whining noise. Then I take it our of her mouth and she looks at at in amazement. Maybe in a few years I can do something like that.

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Probably something best kept as a fantasy. The teeth could hurt.


For Lampwick, becoming hung like a donkey was the result of a total commitment.

If girls don’t like your little flaccid then why do you like it? You’re worried about what guys think? I want a big flaccid it turns girls on to see it. Plus I like the way my penis looks after a jelq session and it would be great if it hung that way all the time. I love the feeling when it is against my thigh just to know it is hanging low.


7-20-16: BP: 7.63 NBP 6.75 x 5.75

3-22-17: BP: 8.44 NBP 7.56 x 5.75

I agree with you sed. I like having to pull my penis up and out of my pants to take a leak. I like the way it moves when I move. I guess I just like having a penis. A year ago I had a small flaccid, Maxtra. Now I don’t. I like it.

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