Size - both the guys AND the female’s IS a significant issue in a relationship as far as I am concerned - and size definitely goes hand in hand with ATTITUDE!
I’ve been with 2 different women in my life - my wife and a gal I had a fling with some years back. I feel I am built on the small side - and my wife is seemingly large enough to take one of those 9 x 7 inch dudes with comfort… Added to that, is her general lacksadaisical/indifferent attitude concerning sex - but it’s difficult to know whether her attitude is because I am physically unable to fully arouse and satisfy her, or because sex just ISN’T something that rates highly on her agenda.
It’s difficult to discuss the issue with her in a logical manner, because she hasn’t had any other men in her life besides me, so has no frame of refference to go by.
It’s a perverse thought I suppose, but since she was a virgin when we were married (yeah, I’m sure!), and as far as I know, I am the only man she’s ever been with, it would be interesting for her to have some hot sex with a much bigger fella who knew how to use his equipment, to see if she would respond/participate with far more enthusiasm and expression than she does with me… NO, I’m not looking for volunteers!
Reason for my curiosity, is that the OTHER gal I was with, was build MUCH more tightly, and had an eager and aggressive attitude towards sex that made time with her VERY satisfying and rewarding for BOTH of us - and due largely to the far better compatibility between her and I in relation to physical size… The right size AND attitude together can make a BIG difference - and I suppose that if push comes to shove, the attitude is the greatest “tool” in maintaing a good relationship. Trying to make love to a female who just LIES there silently, with no real physical participation, makes for a poor sexual relationship.