I asked her how she measured her ex's

Yes, this is why I was watching the show and also it was interesting watching the women enjoy themselves. Not all the guys looked hung and the women looked to me like they were having just as much fun with the average guys.

You tellum, Root!

Idle conversation about past relationships is one thing. They come up. That’s the beast of reality, you want to know how you stack up. I personally rather not know because I have a hard enough time living up to my own expectations than to add worry of some other girl’s twat being tighter or breast bigger. Those are things I don’t concern myself with because frankly, there are many women out there better than me, if I am not enough I welcome you to find someone else, if you are in a relationship with me.

The difference is that some people obsess over the size of an ex. They get depressed over something that will never change. He was bigger or thicker. Well, even if you change the size of your penis, someone else would have been bigger first unless you keep growing and growing and growing.

Competition runs in most people’s blood, but there is a point where you can sit back and just say, ok, he’s got that and maybe one day I will too, but in the meantime I’m all that and more. Some people don’t know how to turn competitiveness off. That may not be a bad thing to many, but to me sometimes you miss life as it is now for looking at how it could or should be. People send so much time trying to be something else that they don’t appreciate who they are now and only do when it’s too late.

And I’ve seen that Real Sex episode. I was rather surprised to see a tape measure worked into the scene. Real sex has had their share of stripper episodes I guess to even things out a little.

Jeez, I was trying be sarcastic.

anna,

Didn’t really mean to be offensive/defensive.

I know that most females don’t care about inches/cm(I hope).

Hopefully, they care about the man, who is a “real” man (whatever their perspective and experience), but who also is, without request, compliant to a woman’s needs(going far and beyond penis size and sexual prowess).

Read, true intimacy.

My previous post was just a blatant attempt to be humorous…and failed, miserably, as always.

The denounced and black sheep of TP…

And among other things,

They call me Varg.

God, a thread hijacking, coming on,

This whole thing was about MustBeDreaming’s personal experience.

Thanks,

Varg

Actually, it pretty much stayed on topic. It still has to do with size and one being measured. If it were to stay exclusively on his personal experience, we couldn’t really say much considering we have nothing to add to his personal experience since we don’t know him personally. :) Avocet will correct me no doubt if in fact we have hijacked this thread.

To do the in case thing, more power to you mustbedreaming. I mean no harm in making harsh judgments on your conversation with your girl. As I stated I am sure the conversation comes up but again, your size is more than “not bad” and I hope the conversation with her doesn't open doors to discussions you may not be prepared to have about her ex's. I am glad you are pleasing your partner and wish to continue to do so. Kudos to you. I wish you much luck and happiness in your relationship and happy gains all around.

sidebar note for varg: I kinda figured your post was a joke considering the idea was one. No offense taken and I wasn’t being defensive. You have a good one.

In reverse of this I have never asked any of the girls I’ve been with what their measurements have been. A good body can come from tiny to xxl as long as the shape is right.. I’ve oggled from small to large ass, again as long as it sticks out and looks good to me I can hit it like a Rattlesnake hits a rat. It’s very possible that man women feel the same way about guys.. It’s just that many guys are not really happy with their size until they know they are causing some pain to the girl because of their size. The key is to find a cool one like Anna and spoil the shit out of her…

RWG

Why is it that every girl I seem to date states that her ex was “huge”? I’ve never dated a girl who tells me that her ex was small. They’re all “10 inches” or more…..maybe they’re measuring by the “bottom of the balls up” method.

It’s annoying the way girls make you feel as if you’re the smallest they’ve been with. I’m 5.75” BPEL and about 4.60” EG and my current girlfriend said “no offense, but you’ve got the smallest penis that I’ve ever seen in person.” BUT- then again, Her 10” boyfriend only gave her 5 orgasms in 3 years of dating. I was able to give her 3 in one night. It’s rare for her to have only one orgasm a night with me. That’s something to be proud of. I know I’m not huge and hung and I’m pretty under average, but at least I’m getting the job done. I really hope to get to my goal of 7.5” BPLE…not sure if this is realistic, but I’m giving it a go. Shoot for the stars right?

<stopping to smell the roses before he posts, dead heading the petunia’s, admiring how the Marigolds have blossomed and grown in volume without the use of Miracle gro>

Yeah, you go with whatever floats your boat.

Anna, you are correct, any discussion could open a Pandora’s Box (no pun intended) of information, that maybe you wouldn’t want to hear. Kind of like in “Meet the Parents” where the Ex boyfriend had everything, and Gaylord Faulker was a good guy, but a simple man, of moderate income etc.

Not to sway the post, but probably am, I think a “beautiful breast” is not judged by a tape measure, there are many different sizes, shapes and colors, I think the woman around the breast, makes the breast.

As for them pulling out a tape measure in the show, that is pretty funny, I’m sad I missed that. I would have gotten a good chuckle, I am sure. If the W was sitting near me she would probably say “How silly!” and I would reply “Yeah, who would do that”.

I am watching rerun’s of “Oz” via netflix (they are taking forever to get the series to dvd), and they are pretty bold on showing the Tallwhacker, there were a couple of “thimbletons”, which made me feel like, yeah, see there are some “normal” sized guys out there.

I originally made my statement regarding my wife just to show that women also have had meories of lovers good bad or indifferent and that sometimes size has made the impression although most will deny it.

I am not here trying to get bigger for her but for myself. I have recently lost about 15 lbs through mostly exercise, had my second colonoscopy and get my prostrate examined regularly by my doctor, so as a total self improvement i would also like to increase my dimensions and this seems to be the right place to learn.

This was what I was exaggerating.

Chongo, I feel for you.

Anna,

Most of us men have experienced the “previous size” vs. “our size” thing even if we didn’t actually ask for it.

Yes, granted,

It comes up inadvertently,(okay, to be honest, mostly on our((males)) part).

Call me what thoust wilt, but even after the most glorious female-orgasm, the conversations can go a bit ary…

A male previously decimated at one time or another by “size queen”, I can guarantee the male participant will ask,

“Am I adequate, do I suffice, in a penile sense”(okay, we don’t actually say that, yet hopefully we all use some tact.)

I always just thought it happens sometimes(although, after reading here at TP, it seems quite regular)

If she has a big-O(or O’s) and avoids the direct question…

Leave it alone.

Cuddle and spoon, conversation, and talk (for God’s sake), and if she’s a “goer” give her a 2nd or 3rd session,

Then, treat her like a lady(not a whore), women are so much more about mental stimulation.

Unlike us “dogs”. (i.e. males)

Thanks,

Varg

PS. I’m a thread hijacking virgin, per say. Some slack, anyone.

Wow, I’m really surprised the direction this thread took.

Anna. This topic popped up so quick and dissapeared with this girl there is no pandora’s box. LOL. But depending on the couple I’m sure there could be. I just wanted to share with the other guys here that it isn’t always true your girl has had a 9”. When I heard this I was scepticle, but even if she did it wouldn’t bother me because she told she doesn’t care about size but only if the guy she’s with lasted more than a minute.

This is the first time I asked a girl about her measuring. Again, I never asked her about her ex’s size, lol, I don’t care. It does nothing for you to know. About 5 years ago, 2 before I started PE, the first time I was with my girl she said sex for once felt good, I asked what do you mean, she said that I was the perfect size (6x5), she then said her ex was huge (though this guy was 6’2 and I am 5’9), that did bother me only when I thought about it, so I didn’t and our sex life was fine. I never asked what his size was, glad I didn’t.

As long as you don’t ask your girl how big her ex was she shouldn’t compare you, don’t give her a reason to. If you don’t last long, please her some more after wards or start doing that before sex.

>> Anna:
“The difference is that some people obsess over the size of an ex. They get depressed over something that will never change. He was bigger or thicker. Well, even if you change the size of your penis, someone else would have been bigger first unless you keep growing and growing and growing.

Competition runs in most people's blood, but there is a point where you can sit back and just say, ok, he's got that and maybe one day I will too, but in the meantime I'm all that and more. Some people don't know how to turn competitiveness off. That may not be a bad thing to many, but to me sometimes you miss life as it is now for looking at how it could or should be. People send so much time trying to be something else that they don't appreciate who they are now and only do when it's too late.”

Excellent summation. When my future wife innocently revealed that she had been with a guy “about an inch longer” than me, I didn’t feel crushed or think, “Oh shit, he pounded her an inch deeper than I can.” I just figured, “Hey, I’m here, he’s gone; time to hit it.”

>> Chongo:
“It's annoying the way girls make you feel as if you're the smallest they've been with. I'm 5.75” BPEL and about 4.60” EG and my current girlfriend said ‘no offense, but you've got the smallest penis that I've ever seen in person’.”

Man, that’s awful for her to say that. I don’t know if you asked, or she volunteered the info, but it’s still shitty as hell. That’s another reason why guys shouldn’t ask (not implying that you did, of course). But who the hell would want to here that shit?

Would it be fair to translate this as “I lied”???

HBO shows penises!?? That’s x-rated, isn’t it? On cable? Where have I been? What’s next? Penetration??

Anna,

I love your take on this. Size comes last in most women’s eyes. The latest studies seem to indicate it’s all about smell, and scent (odor if you like) that one gives off. I go crazy when I smell the odor the Mrs. gives off. Always have. I assume it’s the same for her.

Of course, we are also on an intellectual par, and we love to “spar.”

But most important for us is our spiritual life—we look at things spiritual in the same light.

What more can one ask for in a relationship? Size be damned!! Any girl who’d bring up the size of another guy, I’d dump in the wink of an eye!! I’d describe her as a shallow bitch. Don’t ask!! Don’t tell!!

Horsehung