How hard to squeeze?
I am a frequent lurker, but haven’t posted yet. A quick summary of myself would probably be helpful. I am a thirty + year old married male. Measurements are as follows bone pressed flaccid stretched length is just a hair over 7, while bone pressed erect length is just a bit under 7 (my penis curves to the left a bit) so an exact erect length measurement is difficult to get. Erect girth at midshaft is 5 1/2 inches. I have been playing around with PE on and off for the last couple of months. I have mostly jelqued and done some manual stretching, and will probably try some hanging at some point.
Most of my questions have been answered on this forum at one time or another so there is only one question I need to ask right now. How do you determine how hard to squeeze while jelquing? Some say to grip very tightly while others say a lighter grip is best. The general consensus seems to be that you have to get as much extra blood in the penis as possible to be most effective. For me personally the method that seems to work the best in terms of engorgement is as follows: Achieve a partial erection ( I have a hard time giving a percentage, but if I have to guess I’d say I am 60 to 70% erect??). I use a lube and jelq with palms up at a pretty fast pace (probably a second or less for each stroke). I don’t squeeze very hard when I jelq, but the faster jelquing seems to force a lot of extra blood into my penis, it gets quite engorged and the shaft gets noticably thicker and the head swells a lot. If a squeeze harder I lose my erection a lot faster. So I guess my question is am I jelquing correctly…..is the fact that my penis is swelling up quite a bit proof that I am doing it correctly (for myself anyway).
Thanks in advance for any replies, and seasons greetings to all.