HELP! Compliment Turns Bittersweet
If you want more, and feel that is what you want, then do it for yourself. If you want to stop, then stop. It is your body and you are the one that has to live with it when it is all said and done.
BUT…if 8” is your goal, then obtain your goal (if you haven’t already…not sure of your size) because that is what you wish to achieve. DO NOT let a size complex cloud your judgment. Your girlfriend stated that she was not pleased with 10”. I don’t care if she is wrong about the size or not. The thing is, if this is the woman you want to be with and she says you are perfect (I mean perfect) then take it at face value and go from there. So what if women can’t tell an exact size, but I can guarantee they know what does and doesn’t feel good to them. If you decide later on that she is not the one and you want more, go for it. Right now, or before the “incident” you were cool with everything. You mentioned you would consider stopping. I am proud of you for even having that notion.
I have seen my share of (I really hate to use this word around a bunch of men) pretty dicks here. I mean absolutely fantastic and wondered why the hell are they PEing. It’s a man thing and I will never understand. I may not understand, but I tell you this, I know what looks good to me and what doesn’t. I know what satisfy me and what doesn’t. If my husband decided to PE, I would support him all the way. But I would also make sure before anything is started that there is some kind of agreement on what his limits will be. Because he may have this big daddy johnson dangling down his pants leg, but that thing will still be trying to enter me. And just because he wants the lockness monster in his pants doesn’t mean I have to like it. You know what I mean?
If your girl is happy with what you have and you are satisfied with her pleasure, why worry about something she isn’t fretting over? Why concern yourself with something in the past? How would you react if she kept making her breast bigger and bigger just because you dated one, (1), singular woman whose breast size was a triple cup size? How would you feel if she was never satisfied with your love for her from head to toe, but was more concerned about what you had ages ago? Would seem pretty silly. If not unnerving.
Ultimately, it is your life. You have to tell yourself what is enough. You have to tell yourself that numbers go on to infinity. You can get to the ideal length and still go for more. Just knowing when to stop is the key. And I think if that last bit about her ex boyfriend had not come up, this thread would not even exist.
Last edited by anna nimity : 03-31-2003 at .