I’ve been with alot of women from swinging in my younger days. Until I was in my mid 20’s, I was always self conscious about flaccid length. I am a grower. Add to the fact that, there were always a few guys at parties that were really hung. I’m 39 now, and what I’ve learned is most women get off watching it grow. Especially now that I’m out of the swing scene. Hate to use this term, but most “normal” women are in awe when they get something unexpected. Hell, at times I’M in awe watching them go down on 4 and ending up at 7.5.lol. It always helps to have a great tongue, magnificent hands, etc.but anything to add to the “wow” factor really helps. And being a grower does that for me. I wouldn’t have it any other way.