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Growers VS Showers

Originally Posted by Religion
I just guess at less than half length showing in flaccid is a grower.

That’s generally how I view it. I was at about 3.5” flaccid. Now about 5.5”.


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And what qualifies you as a shower?

Originally Posted by Praseo
And what qualifies you as a shower?

That is part of the question. I’d imagine, a shower is someone who THINKS he’s a shower, whether it’s 3” or 5” flaccid.


Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.

AJ I think some of it has to do with the way it hangs too… I have like a 5” flaccid, but to me, it looks tiny, maybe it’s cause I go about 240lbs on a pretty big frame, idk, it points straight down at about a 45 degree angle, I think if I had another inch on my flaccid with a little downward bend, it would look way bigger. It’s a little longer than my iPhone, yet I look at my iphone and I think a flaccid that long should look good, go figure.


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Originally Posted by Acid Jazz
I’d imagine, a shower is someone who THINKS he’s a shower, whether it’s 3” or 5” flaccid.

Ha Ha, it is not all in the mind. My Pre-PE flaccid more or less tripled in size to my Pre-PE erection. No amount of “thinking” I was a shower would change that.

[Actually this was one of the things that screwed my perceptions of my own size as a teenager. I assumed the big flaccids tripled in size as well.]

Now this is the clearest definition of Show-er vs Grower I have ever seen:

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What’s the average penis size?
by Dr. Petra Boynton

Research shows soft (flaccid) penises vary in size much more than erect ones do - and it isn’t possible to predict from a soft cock what It’ll look like when It’s hard.

Some guys don't change much between flaccid and erect, others do. Sometimes this is referred to as guys being ‘showers’ - they’re big when soft and don’t get much bigger; or ‘growers’ - they’re smaller when soft but then grow a fair bit as they get hard.

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Sorry no link, it is dead.


Last edited by sta-kool : 06-03-2010 at .

Originally Posted by sta-kool
Ha Ha, it is not all in the mind. My Pre-PE flaccid more or less tripled in size to my Pre-PE erection. No amount of “thinking” I was a shower would change that.

[Actually this was one of the things that screwed my perceptions of my own size as a teenager. I assumed the big flaccids tripled in size as well.]

Now this is the clearest definition of Show-er vs Grower I have ever seen:

++++++++++++++++++++++++++
What’s the average penis size?
by Dr. Petra Boynton

Research shows soft (flaccid) penises vary in size much more than erect ones do - and it isn’t possible to predict from a soft cock what It’ll look like when It’s hard.

Some guys don't change much between flaccid and erect, others do. Sometimes this is referred to as guys being ‘showers’ - they’re big when soft and don’t get much bigger; or ‘growers’ - they’re smaller when soft but then grow a fair bit as they get hard.

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Sorry no link, it is dead.

You’re right, it’s not all in the mind per se. I guess what I was trying to say, was/is that who’s to say what flaccid size says “shower” or “grower”. ( eg: less than 5” = grower, more than 5” = shower???? )

Again, debating on what constitutes a shower or grower, wasn’t the point of the thread.

I really want to help the growers out there understand that most women really don’t care about our flaccid dicks. In fact, what ever your flaccid is, it is probably “cute”, “perfect”, etc. to the woman who loves the man it is attached to.


Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.

Well I think we can all generally agree on this:

‘showers’ - they’re big when soft and don’t get much bigger
‘growers’ - they’re smaller when soft but then grow a fair bit as they get hard.

Of course at Thunders we love to get bogged down in the nitpickiest of details. Most of that kind of thing is pointless.

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I get your point about a women who loves you not caring about your flaccid size. I would agree with you. On the other hand when I am having a good flaccid day these days, she certainly notices (comments). That’s good because it gets her thinking about sex.

But here’s where I disagree with you — “Cute” and “Penis” are words that shouldn’t be put in the same sentence. ;)

Originally Posted by sta-kool
But here’s where I disagree with you — “Cute” and “Penis” are words that shouldn’t be put in the same sentence. ;)

That’s very true. But, yesterday I asked my wife to show me what flaccid she thought was “cute”. She proceeded to push my flaccid back until all we could see was the head. She smiled and laughed, and again said, “it’s cute when it’s that small”.

I laughed, and said, “good thing it grows, huh?” She said, “oh yes, very good thing” ;)

There was zero malice or meanness involved. I truly believe my wife thinks this penis tugging/growing thing is silly.

If/when I get my girth to 6”, we’ll see if she thinks it’s “silly”. I’m blessed with a wonderful girl. ( not perfect, but perfect for me )


Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.

Originally Posted by sta-kool
She sounds wonderful. :jumpblue:

She is. :thumbs:


Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.

Yeah. So bad that she hasn’t good tastes as far as men are concerned.

Just kidding. ;)

Originally Posted by marinera
Yeah. So bad that she hasn’t good tastes as far as men are concerned.

Just kidding. ;)

:) We obsess on this shit, and we probably don’t need to in order to have a happy life.


Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.

Many, maybe even most of members here, don’t need, IMHO. They should do PE just for penis health.

Originally Posted by marinera
Many, maybe even most of members here, don’t need, IMHO. They should do PE just for penis health.

I am one of them. It’s simply a matter of ego and greed. :)


Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.

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