Grower vs showers, what's going on?

RFJ- I hear you- but I’ve noticed that the ladies seem to respond very nicely to the heavier flaccid hang- as in actively touching it, holding it, fondling it- of course it doesn’t stay flaccid for long.

What I’ve observed is that a heavier fuller flaccid impresses the ladies with your size even before you get hard- after that it seems it’s your game to lose.

I’ll ‘fess up to wearing some manner of cock and ball strap about half the time I’m out and about- when I’m off to meet witha lady, or she’s coming over for a tumble, I make a point of using a silk stocking or Hermes type small scarf.

It keeps me adjustably plumped and they so dearly love to unwrap it when it’s time to get down to business- and they constantly comment on the full flaccid.

It’s made a believer of me.

I’m turning myself slowly into a shower, and I’m just practing PE for two weeks.

I was pretty small before doing PE when flaccid, more or less 2” of length, now is like 4”-5”, a nice improvement, huh? :) (Probably because I’m using an ADS for a month now).

Yeah I’ll say, that is an improvement!

Hey- silly but related question [since I never really emphasized Flaccid hang measurements]- when you guys measure a hanging flaccid- are you simply holding a tape along the hang, bending over so your johnson is hanging straight down and measure or sort of holding out and away without stretching it along the ruler?

I do hanging flaccid NBP, along the top.

Just letting the tape drape, correct?

No I use a ruler. The inches on my tape measure is a bit off. Each inch is about and 1/16 of an inch longer than a normal inch. So that would make it shorter.

So then clarify how you measure against my three examples given?

So would I. But when you drop trow in front of that pretty little thing and she’s looking at your 5 to 6 inch flaccid hang, the way her eyes light up is priceless. It kind of sets the stage for what follows.

I was a major grower before PE. Now I’m much more of a shower.

Hey- I’ve an idea- spring for a new tape measure.

If you make it to the NYC TP sit down, I’ll spot you the $1.59 you’re out of pocket ;)

Man, totally agree with you on this one!
People need to realize once for all that success with women rely on 2 major factors : big money AND/OR Big Dick. That’s it! That’s what i’ve learned in the game.

Back to the story. I’m a grower too, and that’s fucked up, because you got to make sure people don’t notice the dick shape by looking at your crotch at home, in the class or in the streets. I’m convinced im no longer in the small category EL-wise, but hell, I want more erect length, and more flaccid hang. Hopefully i’ll meet my goals in a few months, I just keep the faith. The problem with me is I got a problem with long term dedication and consistency.. Anyway.. *Dreams of sporting a 9 inch dick*. I’ll be there!

No, it isn’t. If you meet a woman whose interests are exclusively money and dick, you’d better keep yourself far far away from her.

I think I must be a grower.. Here’s why: Although I don’t gawk at the other guys in the locker room at my gym, I’ll sometimes take a quick, discreet peek.. And I still get surprised at how many guys have a pretty impressive flaccid size. Mine’s not ridiculously small I think, but it’s often definately in the ‘kinda smallish, not very impressive-category’. (Me being 6.3 tall doesn’t help either) After a workout I’m never in a fluffy, ‘loose’ flaccid state. I once read somewhere that this is because during a workout, the penis is not exactly the priority when it comes to blood flow. I guess that means that all these big guys are even bigger when they haven’t just worked out.(!) Now, erect I’m 6” NBP by 5.3”, a size that’s slightly longer and probably noticeably thicker than the average, according to most surveys. If we trust these surveys aren’t way off, that means I’m a grower, how else can so many guys be bigger flaccid than me? (Yes, I know about the whole ‘optical illusion’ of looking down on your own unit, but I think I’m not fooling myself too much here.)

Even though most people probably have read/heard about how ‘flaccid size doesn’t say anything about the erect size’, I still think most people automatically think ‘small dick’ when they see a small flaccid dick, and ‘big dick’ when they see a big flaccid dick. So becoming less of a grower (or at least getting a fuller flaccid hang) is one of my main goals in PE. But I do also see a draw-back in being too much of a shower. I’m sure many girls will be disappointed if the impressive soft one they have in front of them hardly grows at all, but just ‘stiffens’.

Not in my experience- PE has taken me from grow-er to show-er* and I’ve found that women respond to the perception of size as much as actual size.
When you drop trou and show off a fluffy flaccid, women tend to feel as if they have permission to react to a big dick. And while you never ever should volunteer that you have a big one [unless you’re 9”+- then all bets are off], you should never dissuade them form their perception that you do.

Which is why you should use Magnums as soon as practicable- and subtly flourish that gold packet so they comment on your size- not you.

*When I’m having a full day- if I overdo PE or halt PE supps then the flaccid gets a bit tight.

I’ve been working out for 6 years non stop and I never understood the need to get naked at the gym. If you have to change clothes, why the need to change underwear? Why not take a shower when you get home? Why do you guys walk around the locker room naked, shave and brush you teeth and weigh yourself naked?