Going to start CLAMPING. Here's why!
If any of you have read my progress log, then you know that I have been seeing a girl lately. A purely physical relationship, which is what both of us want.
We’ve been having some great sex as of late. I consider her a friend but with some amazing benefits. So, I do feel like I can talk to her about ANYTHING.
So, last night, after 3 hours of pretty continuous sex, I started a less than ideal conversation…
“How many guys have you slept with?”
At first, she mumbled about almost as if she was embarrassed to tell me. Then she finally blurted it out “Probably around 10 or so” She asked me the same question only substituting the word “girls.” I told her that she was my 4th sexual partner. She thought that was cute, although I don’t know why.
Here comes the dumb part. Why I asked this, I’ll never know, but the fact remains that I did.
“So, how do I stack-up against these other guys?”
Obviously she knew what I meant but she played it coy by saying: “I enjoy your company the most because you make me feel good.” I should have left it at that, but I didn’t. I told her “that’s not what I’m talking about.” WHY DID I PRESS THE ISSUE? Damn me. I could tell she did not want to tangle with this topic…
Then she said it…to the best I can remember…
“What do you want me to say? How does your dick compare to the others? If you really want to know, then fine. You’re length is fine, bigger than some smaller than others but not by much. But you are probably the thinnest I’ve ever had.”
I acted like it didn’t bother me, and it really didn’t that much because I pretty much expected that answer. I know my girth is small @ 4.375” mid-shaft
After she said that, she kept grabbing my arm and kissing me saying “but that doesn’t matter T. I choose to be with you, not them!” So, that made me feel good.
But this also made me realize that I am DONE struggling with length here. I need girth! So, after some rest, I’m going to start clamping. I bought some cable clamps this morning, going to cut a mousepad up for a wrap, and do as much reading up on the topic as I can!