Finally virgin no more, but...

Haha, I couldn’t get a hard on for my first time either. Lucky for you, the girl you had your first time with is someone you like and likes you back. My first girl was some random skank my friends set me up with on a holiday.

She said I was probably nervous, but I was trying to be cool and keep my dignity and assured her I didn’t feel nervous. But I probably was very much so.

Eventually I offered to go down on her, then before I started licking, I got my boner, then put a condom on and started boning. Then I lost my boner and we wasted a condom and she went home.

Haha, talk about smooth!

These days, I have no problems with getting a hard one. Now, it’s the opposite. I get completely rock hard and usually can’t last a sufficient amount of time. :P

Sounds like heaven compared to my first time. God, I was such a lousy lay. I lasted for two full seconds, then dribbled my load on her knee. After that I just couldn’t stay awake, so I fell asleep on top of her.

Since lots of people are posting about their first encounter I will post mine. When I lost my virginity, I COULD NOT stay hard or get it up to the erection level I would have preferred. We eventually gave up and just ended it for the day. The embarrassment :( But the anxiety and all passed after and now I am fine ;)

I don’t mind hearing people first sexual relationship experience :)

Congratulations Daboogies! That is great that you and your love saved yourselves for each other. Very romantic! Most people do not have such a significant and special first time. And the important thing is to remember what a special emotional experience and significant moment it was in both your lives. You shouldn’t compare it to what you see in porno movies, because it was so much more than that. And now you can practice, practice, practice on your technique! Come back in a few weeks and tell us how good you fucked her!

Bummer, man. You only get one time to get it right. Next time around, bud.

My first time was killer! We were 15 and both virgins. Her pussy was so pink and tight that I was compelled to pound it every which way but Sunday with my rock hard cock. That was over 20 years ago and I still wank to it. The second chick that I fucked was even better, WAY better, but that’s another story.

Congrats daboogies! It only gets better trust me. My first time was difficult, because I caused my ex a lot of pain, and I can’t keep hard when a girls not enjoying herself. We eventually got pretty good at doing the bad thing however. =]

You’re a real piece of work 46.

Unfortunately I am still a virgin , I thought the first time would be impossible for you not to have an erection, personally I get an erection even if a girl sits next to me and just touches me.

You need to get laid :D

I think that’s normal for every virgin, it kept happening to me even after my first few goes, and I have friends who still get rock hard at the thought of sex.

Hey folks!!!!

She found herself once again at my place without a reason. She told me she couldn’t have come anyway. I guess she likes me more after our first time sex. We spent the whole night together… that was awesome!

You know what? The second time was a lot better. I could get a real hard erection right after 5 seconds of kissing and some tender touch from her :D .
She is going back to her place tomorrow, I feel a bit sad about that, but I will see her very soon for another great love making :)

Once again, I just would like to thank everyone of you for your comments and encouragements.

Best regards.

D’

That’s great, practise makes perfect.

Great news, thanks for the follow up. If you haven’t taken a look at this you might want to:

Give Her the Big O

That works like a charm!

Yeah thanks a lot bro. I have read that before too.

By the way, I just got a call from her. She just called up and said that she missed me :D :D :D What a happy day.

Regards,

Don’t get all anxious about your performance. It was your first time. Seldom are they perfect. Who gives a shit, you got some.

My first time I was so nervous, didn’t have a clue what to do, wasn’t actually planning to do it. She wouldn’t let me, we played around naked a lot, I was allowed to rub my penis between the lips of her vulva but not penetrate her. Then one day she got on top and wanted me inside her. Hell, it was too slippery and I couldn’t get it in. She had to take her hand and put it inside her.

I started thrusting as a man who has no idea what to do would. She told me to stop and just lay there so I did. I never did orgasm because of nerves and anxiety. At least she got to ride me until she was done. After almost an hour, I just went soft. You know what? It was still fun and I still remember every minute of that experience. Yeah, I had no clue what to do. I didn’t cum. So what? Things just got better from there.

First time with a new woman can be just as frightening, have it’s own set of worries, and in the end…be just as much fun. The first time with my second woman I had no idea about premature ejaculation. I’d always lasted a long time with the first one. The second one I was so excited, was used to the penis rubbing the outside, between the vulva, working on the clit a little before penetration. Hell, this woman’s pussy was so big, when I placed my penis against her I was immediately buried balls deep, by suprise, and blew a load immediately. No problem. We cleaned up, went back to playing with each other and did better a few minutes later.

From these early experiences, especially the time spent with woman #2 - she would come see me every day for sex and was a great teacher, I learned a few things:
1 - Don’t worry about it.
2 - Just enjoy it and do your best to make her feel good with your tongue and fingers.
3 - Then, when you get around to getting your dick wet you will be more relaxed and perform better, and you will enjoy it more.
4 - Have a bad performance? Go back to fingering and licking. Pleasing her will make you hard again.
5 - If you totally put her first all the time, you will be a great lover and both of you will have a good time. This is the key to having good sex. Make it about her…not yourself.