Extremely frequent goals make me always want to PE
I’m not sure how extensively goals are discussed here, but IMO the mental game of PE is more than half the battle.
Many people get caught in the idea of what their penis may one day be like (typically the 8x6), but it tends to be this idea that frustrates people when they measure and realize how far they must go to get to their final goal and how much work/patience is required.
What I’ve formulated for myself is a nice little nifty goal card. I’m not talking about a goal card that says:
“Short-term goal: 7.5NBPEL EG: 5.5”
“Long-term goal: 8.0NBPEL EG: 6”
My starting stats were 6 7/8 BPEL and 4.5EG and I knew for a fact I couldn’t get to 7.5 NBPEL any time remotely soon (plus I’m inpatient as are many young males who spend time looking at this site). Staring at that goal card wondering how long it will be before I can cross of that short term goal would only discourage me and cause me to be lax in my exercises.
What I made is a goal card that has 12 total goals on it. I made it very neatly and it looks something like this.
“1st goal: 7BPEL 4 5/8 EG”
“2nd goal: 7 1/8BPEL 4 3/4 EG”
“3rd goal: 7 1/4 BPEL 4 7/8 EG”
This continues all the way up until 8.5 BPEL and 6 EG (a total of 12 goals with the final 1 written all big and pretty :P) by incriments of an 1/8 inch for both length and girth for each goal.
I also put check boxes on the side near these goals.
What this series of numerous short term goals does is it allows me to easily reach the next goal (within a month or less) and being able to check off a box inspires me more than anything else could to keep going.
Knocking down goal after goal will cause the time to fly by and before I know it I’ll be at my goal.