ex-lurker..

Time to step up and share. My story is not so disimilar from many yet I hope it can provide some additional inspiration and motivation for others. Sizewise I began as totally average 6.25 BPEL and 4.75 girth. Even at 18 I knew this was average. My initial sexual experience was with a girl who’d had one other boyfriend and she told me, if you’re average then he must have been huge! It didn’t hurt too much because she was cool and really into me and my dick but it got me wondering….well, many girls and about 20 years later I stumbled across the concept of jelquing (thank you internet) and I thought, doh! that makes sense. Three months of manual stretches and jelques later I had 7.0 and 4.875 and I stopped. I thought doing it longer than that would cause damage.( I once bled from the tip ) I wanted more but I didn’t feel I could safely get it and I didn’t want much more length if I couldn’t get the girth. Plus, I was pretty happy that I could say 7 inches even though it required me to measure just right. I was looking forward to using my new dick and seeing if I got a positive response.

Well, wouldn’t you know my next girlfriend was a size queen. She said, on first sight, “Oh, that’s nice”. Well she loves dick so it was all good but a couple months down the road she was talking about her most recent ex – got that faraway look in her eyes and said, “…now he had a big dick. I love a big fat dick…oh, but yours is nice.” Well from what I’ve read here many of you know the sick feeling that kind of comment can generate. Other comments from time to time came up and I began to feel more and more dissatisfied with my 7.0 and especially the girth.

I found Thunders after spending some time at a pumping site and trying that a bit. I’ve been pretty happy with the wealth of info here and have been making some gains from intellegent PE since April 2003. I’m now a solid 7.5 BPEL and 5.0 girth thanks to smarter stretching, jelquing, Uli’s, Horses and hanging.

So what are my goals? Golden ratio NBP of course. I’m already pretty happy but we all want to see those eyes widen don’t we?

The best thing I’ve heard lately is that I’m disproportionate – I’m 5’7”. That made me want to work even harder.

Thanks for sharing your story, I’ve never been ripped apart by a size queen, but guess it is a huge boost for motivation. Reading your post was like a breathe of fresh air, I love reading success stories like that and I wish you the best of luck.

Take Care,Jones

There’s some real heartless bitches out there. Don’t they realise what comments like that can do to a guy?. I’ve never had any “size queen” comments thrown at me, I think it would have destroyed me, but it seem’s to have motivated you.

You’ve got some good gains under your belt. Keep up the good work man.
good luck.
murph

So are you still with the size-queen? What does she think of your new size?

Keep working on your girth. Great job so far!

The only real fucked-up comment I’ve heard so far came from one of my ex’s. She said she’d been with a 9”er before me and had the best orgasm in her life from that. Now that was sobering, to say the least.

Great gains, Bro. Keep at it.

And welcome to the board!

No, I’m not with the size-queen anymore. I learned a lot from that experience.

A person’s perception of you isn’t you. That sick feeling of inadequacy comes from within, not from whatever the other person said. She wasn’t heartless, just thoughtless. And honestly, with regard to my feelings being hurt she expected me to be a man and take it. I put up a good front but she could see she got me and it lowered her esteem of me more than the dick discrepancy ever did.

wow. I like your awareness. I’m actually impressed.

by the way, welcome aboard :)

tharkian

actually your size queen may have been exagerrating or lying.

It’s sometimes a head game women play to keep the upper hand in a relationship.

Another trick to get the same result is called the “shit test”.

Read my thread in the love life and fantasies forum about flirting and seduction. It is a goldmine of information, opinions and links. I have an article in there toward the end of the thread from the Askmen.com site on shit tests.

Welcome man! :thumbs: