Caught while pumping?

Drew,

My wife walked in on me while I was preparing for a clamping session. I didn’t know what to say at first and she assumed I was masturbating and left me alone. She was curious on what exactly I was doing since she noticed the clamp and wrapping material. Later that night I discussed the situation with her and informed her about my PE sessions.

After a month and a half of newbie routines my girth has increased by .750” and NBP length by .750”, my wife has noticed a difference in our sex. She said lately I had been hitting places and giving her more stimulation, but just thought it was caused by better technique.

She was very turned on by my ambition to improve my penis and was curious about how it was done. I explained some of the techniques and how often I perform my PE routines. We have been married for ten years and I feel better now that I don’t have to keep my PE stuff a secret anymore. She is very supportive and interested in my gains.

Beginning size 8/29/05- NBP length: 6.0”, Girth 5.0”

Current size 10/24/05- NBP Length: 6.75”, Girth 5.75”

Short term goal: NBP length 7.0”, *Girth 5.5” (now working on length)

Long term goal: NBP length 8.0”, Girth 6.0”

In my opinion I would keep your PE private, but you should let your wife know what you are doing before she catches you. It is always better to be honest and up front then having to explain later.

Keep on pumping and best of luck with your gains!

Maybe because the answer is not to hide PE from your SO.

Think about it, what’s the worst that can happen if she learns from you about it? You want to do exercises for your dick to keep it healthy, is the last trend en men’s health, see, “Austin Powers does it too, dear!”

Thank you buddy.:) We/I never premeditated it, it just happened during a pumping session and we liked it. The fluid build up thing is absolutely true, it does work: The fucking movement drives the lymph back towards the body while the CC remain filled up with blood. I figure it helps prevent the donut effect.:)

Well I havent really experienced any gains, but I dont think Ive been as religous about my peing as I could be due to lack of time and privacy. I think I would probably tell her after I had already made some gains and after she noticed the gains.

It took me a couple of years of fumbled stealth before I explained myself.

Now it’s accepted behaviour. Although it is considered unnecessary from the s/o for me it is as necessary as breathing

I thought this what was meant by massage vigorously between pumping sets.

It is embarrassing to be caught pumping.

Especially if it happens because you answered the door to sign for your UPS delivery of Viagra.

Good thing the girl in the brown uniform was cute.

In other words, you will tell her once you have made some gains, but can’t make any gains until you don’t have to hide what you are doing from her! The ol’ Catch 22.

I am with pretty well everyone else here. Tell her! And use the approach recommended — it is about Penile Health! — and any size gains are just a bonus. Related to this you can let her know your morning wood is flagging (even if it is a lie) and you want to keep your unit optimized as an investment for a healthy penis when you are older. I did start getting weak morning wood in my 20s, so it isn’t far-fetched at all.

Hell, I have said many times here, even if I didn’t get any size gains, the overall better health of my penis was worth the time invested!

Cdr.Blop

Drew,

Like you I have not mentioned PE to my wife. I have been wondering about this and a related subject (when and if do you tell your son about this) for a while. My issues are in the “why don’t I” category, as opposed to “how do I tell her”. My fear is that if I tell her, it will come back to haunt me. That is, who will she tell or will she blab it out during an arguement or something where I will get humiliated. (Not that I wouldn’t be more humiliated if she walked in on my pump session.) I am a very private person, and confiding something like this is very hard for me.

This is a trust thing. Until I am resolved on the whole trust issue, I am not telling.

My wife investigates everything I do. It gets annoying. It has a lot to do with her being insecure. When I first started PE, I told her about it and she said “Why? I like the way you are already, are you trying to impress someone?”. So I replied “If you could make your boobs bigger without surgery, you would. So don’t give me this crap.” I just won’t let her see me doing my workouts, because I’d be embarrassed.

Just say “I need some private time with Mr. Happy.” - or whatever you call it (don’t get me wrong, I’m not looking to expand my social life).

If she asks why, say, “We have some business to take care of; he needs to be disciplined.” Then go in to a room and lock the door.

If she knocks, answer the door wearing the tube (or hanger or whatever) and say, “WHAT!?!” She probably won’t do it again.

Thx Commanderblop. The Penile Health approach simply wont work. Im in my 20’s and she knows I dont have a problem. Im not really even worried about telling her or not telling her. I was just curious about the people that dont tell there s/o, how they hide it, where they hide it and stuff like that. And I agree, even if I dont get size, Ill continue to P E because its healthy as long as Im careful and do it in moderation.

Hap: it is so funny how similar all Thunderians lives must be. The other day my doorbell rang whilst I was clamping. I answered opening the door just a crack, because the only thing I was wearing at the time was a CableClamp. Our very cute mail lady, who is used to handing me packages through a cracked door, handed me my kitsnmore delivery and a package from monkeybar. I signed for the packages while a cacophony of porno moaned out from my office and handed her back the receipt. She walked away smiling shaking her head. It seems every delivery I’ve received from her has been the same way. She just happens to deliver at the time I’m in mid girth workout. I’m sure SHE is writing a book also.