Guys, Guys, Guys..Lets all take a deep breath!
OK Wad and Cappy, I certainly did not take offense at what either of you posted. Not one little bit.
I thought (maybe I’m much dumber that I first thought) you were both simply warning the other guys here at Thunders that maybe not every S/O would take it in the same understanding was that my and Pahncrd’s wives did.
I have a “feel” for what both of you are saying…I’ve seen too many of my buddies marriages go up in smoke because the wife decided it was time to move on.
As I saw some of these events unfold, I believed (as I still do) that MY marriage is different.
Cappy said “Just because you tell your wife you PE doesn’t mean that she understand you.” I agree whole heartedly with this, but I’m not trying to make her understand me, just understand why I PE.
For me Cappy this was virtually the same situation reversed when my wife began talking about getting a boob job (which she got BTW). I was there during the consultations and even though I don’t really understand her any more after this process, I do understand why she elected for the procedure.
Wad, I agree when you say that the 50%+ of couples that walk down the aisle do not expect to get divorced. But lets face it, SO many people get married for the wrong reasons. I’m sure that I will get called “Old Fashioned” when I say I think my marriage is stronger for the fact that we were both virgins when we met. Why would you stray when you don’t know what your missing?
It is a sad (I think) fact of life that not all marriages are perfect and so not all wives need to know about PE.
Indeed, not all wives could handle knowing about PE.
I only ever wanted to share my experience with my brothers at Thunder’s Place. I hope you all had a good laugh at my (mis)fortunate little event.I know I did!