I’ve been married a long time, and haven’t been “caking” my unit or exploring any other part of the dessert menu, so admittedly my observations are based on a small sample size. That said, I think there must be considerable variation in what women can handle.
I’m a little over 8 x 5.75 (on a good day). On a fairly limited number of occasions (usually when I’m up for Olympic gold medal sex), I’ve caused some discomfort due to penetration depth, but I’m not even close to having a problem on the girth front.
Maybe this is partly a penile sensitivity issue, and I suppose it’s possible that my perspective could change if/when I resolve possible low T issues, but at this point I’m convinced that increased thickness would significantly enhance my experience without any problem for my wife - at least as long as I don’t get carried away and try to set new Olympic depth records.
Anyway, I think it’s a mistake to leap too quickly to the assumption that all guys looking for more than 5.5 must be misogynistic troglodytes, or into S&M.
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