Read the first page and the most recent page. Some thoughts from a homo man who tops and bottoms AND has also had sex with women:
Let’s just say I “married well.” My husband has a big fat dick.
He also married well, as I also have a big fat dick.
Lube lube lube lube lube lube lube.
Not all lube is the same.
There is no one lube that is perfect for everyone.
Try ALL of the lubes. Have a selection available if you play around.
(Read to the end to see my personal lube recipe.)
My husband and I are both experienced and smart enough to use our well manicured fingers and lots of lube. Not “working” at loosening or relaxing. Playing. You know, like for fun. Prostate massage, causing a prostatic orgasm, REALLY helps get my ass ready for his big fat cock. The first time I took it, I made sure he was on his back so I was on top and controlling the first 10 minutes or so. The first time he took my cock, same thing. Now then, after that “getting used to it” moment, after everything is all relaxed and excited at the same time, he can fuck me or I can fuck him, and I am telling you, *not gentle.* It is awesome. We almost always do it that way, because no one should have a big fat cock just rammed into them. AT FIRST.
Analog to a Male/Female Sexual Experience:
*PLAY* with her pussy. Clean, well manicured fingers and lots of lube. Make her feel good with your hands and mouth FIRST. Even for quickie sex, go for it, man! Get HER off.
Let her get on top and slide over your big fat cock. Let her take her time pulling you into her. Anal? Sure! SAME THING. PLAY with her ass. Oral? Well. Teeth. So, google “gummerz.” Seriously, they work and they help.
After she’s really riding you, THEN you flip and fuck her until you unload that seed, buddy!
My lube recipe:
1 part 100% pure cocoa butter
2 parts 100% pure almond oil
Melt together in a pan. Don’t cook. Just melt. Stir a lot. Pour, hot, into a glass jar and put it immediately into the fridge.
Yes, it smells like cocoa butter. But it is the silkiest most natural feeling lubricant I have ever found. AND it leaves all the skin surfaces feeling moisturized.
Some friends of mine love 100% pure shea butter. I have also used 100% pure coconut oil. Some mix of all four of these would seem to be amazing? I’ll try it and get back to you.
BTW, this recipe is also great for jacking, pumping, jelqing, and rough skin anywhere like feet, elbows, and working-man-hands.
I love my cock. I just want it to be the best cock it can be!
BPEL: 8", EG: 6.5" (head) and 5 (shaft), Nutts 1.5”