Best Size?

I know this is a very subjective question, but what do most guys here think is the best size for women. I am starting out 5x4.20. I am thinking I want to hit 7x5. Maybe 8x6? I Think I can get to 5.5 easy cuz thats what I was in high school, 10 years ago. My wife is used to my small tool (which I never knew was small till coming here! I thought it was average!) and says she doesn’t mind, but really, will the sensation be much better at 7x5? Or even 8x6?

Go for 7x5.5. Like you said “it’s subjective” :)

Actually, your just a tad below average. Don’t believe Kinsey.

I suggest making intermediate goals and reevaluating from there. That’s what I’ve been doing.

Maybe start w/ 6x5 and go from there.

The sensation will likely be better for both of you with a 7x5 even a 6x4.5.

TWJ,

PE has had many other benefits for me other than just the size increase. I usually have harder erections, and I stay hard after ejaculating, so that If my wife hasn’t reached orgasm yet, I can keep pleasing her until she does.

I asked my wife how much bigger she would like me to be, and she said an inch longer and a 1/4 inch bigger around. I have surpassed both of those goals, and I still want much more. I set my goal of 8 inches when I started, because that is the size that people bragged about having when I was growing up, but it seems that these days there are guys bragging about having nine or ten inches, go figure.

As for the sensation, I’d say it could go either way. If your wife has had children by natural childbirth, or plans to in the future, the bigger size will definitely be an advantage.

TJW, welcome to Thunders! My name is Tom and I have been a PE addict for…

My advice if I were you, and I was your size before, is to start with something reasonable. Orignally I wanted to get to 6 inches in length. Once I got 6, I wanted 7 etc. You don’t need to make an absolute decision tonight or even next month. Just take it as it goes, and when you want to stop, then do it.

If you stop PE and you are not “large” don’t worry about it. As long as you are happy with your size, use it and enjoy it. Any gain is better than none, so don’t become jaded by other’s goals.

Also patience is a virtue for PE, so have fun experiencing the rest of Thunders while you gain. Feel free to ask questions, and read everything.

Good luck.

-Tom “Pickle Pants” Foolery

She doesnt mind ? WOuld be nice to give her something to mind about lots :chuckle: Your not far off average from the studies I’ve seen and in my own opinion but if you got like 7x6 she couldnt fail to notice that.

I think women always like the extra girth but only really want the length when they really get steamed up. 8x6 is too big most of the time. Even 5x5 would be good. Girth always counts for more in size (volume) which is what shes feeling

The “best size” is the one that YOU are most happy with. Vaginas, like penises, vary much in size. There have been monster-cocked guys who can hammer a woman with their ridiculous unit and receive barely any acknowledgement - in the battle of Cock vs Pussy, Pussy almost always wins. So, don’t get into some kind of penile “arms race” - it’s a losing proposition.

And, to be sure, there are other women who are smarting after a 7 x 5.5 sexing.

I guess its hard for my wife to say. SHe has only seen one penis in real life and thats mine. We were both virgins when we married. I ask her if she would like it to be bigger and she says no,that wouldn’t help at all because of where the clitoris is located, she says it wouldn’t matter. I have showed her how big a 8-9 incher is and she says that is disgusting. 7 inch she doesn’t think it is as bad. I wonder if all my hard work will be worth it.

My wife has assured and re-assured me that everything is fine with 6.5x5.0 and when I told her about my wish to become bigger she said that it wasn´t necessary. That everything was fine and I didn´t have to do anything at all. But when I said that I am doing this for ME, and that I have always wanted a little more size, she understood that this was something that I was going to do no matter what. She then said: “Oh, well…..if you do succeed in gaining size…..the better for me”. So in conclusion; this is not something she craves/desires, but if it would happen…fine. Bring it on. One way of finding out what she truly feels about being a little more filled up is to give her a tongue-job and stick a finger or two more than usual in there. Wait a week or two and do it again with fewer fingers and compare the two. I did, and I am now on a mission :p

My gf also stated that 8+ looks disgusting. Not all women are turned on by massive units.

I think they’d be singing a different tune if yours were 8 inches and, of course, it still fit. 8 inches(BP) seems perfectly normal to my wife, but it wouldn’t have 1.5 inches ago.

You saying all women like the look of a massive unit? I guess just like all guys like huge tits and ass hey? *sarcasm* Each to their own. We all have different desires and things that turn us on. But this is typical coming from a PE website. The one is more obsessed than the other.

I think you are correct and incorrect. It depends on the woman: With inexperienced women that say they don’t like big, I believe it is true that many women will change their minds, but some women won’t. Even DW has said that women who say they don’t want big and haven’t experienced big yet will often change their minds when they do. Some women aren’t going to prefer big though.

Wifey prefers bigger than what I once had.

She wanted more length and friction. Now she complains it’s too big altogether. Tho when the lovin gets hot and heavy she moans how gooooooood it feeeeeeeeels.

I think I am approaching a limit of sorts with Wifey. 7x5.5 seems very near perfect for her. I just want to eek out .25 more length and girth.

Then retire… maybe.