Average size globally, new study!

Actually I read a theory on that, sorry can’t remember where, probably a forum etc.

The theory is that white guys are much more desirable for porn, ie for most porn the public wants to see white guys with white women. Because black guys are less desirable to porn producers, they only get black actors if the guy has a huge dick. If you look at most of the popular white porn guys they are not the biggest, but generally are handsome, clean cut, professional looking guys who look good in a suit or naked. The few black guys in porn are more of a fetish look, because they got picked for having huge dicks.

Women like to shit test a man. Referring to another mans dick as larger and possibly more desirable by inference, will potentially wound a man in possibly fatal ways.

Such is the dark side of relationships .

As a man grows, literally and psychologically, he realises this shit test is an insecurity in a woman that is painful. We then have a choice, either to carry her insecurity or hand it back.

Repeat when necessary.

I won’t argue about the insecurity part, but I will add that shit tests are definitely about hypergamy—mating with stronger men. Fail enough shit tests and you’re sunk. To keep this conversation on dick size, most women will choose and will stick with a man with a micro-penis who can keep a firm hand over her vs. a big-cock’d guy who is passive and weak. Now, of course, the best combination is being both dominant and having a big cock…

I won’t argue about the insecurity part, but I will add that shit tests are definitely about hypergamy—mating with stronger men. Fail enough shit tests and you’re sunk. To keep this conversation on dick size, most women will choose and will stick with a man with a micro-penis who can keep a firm hand over her vs. A big-cock’d guy who is passive and weak. Now, of course, the best combination is being both dominant and having a big cock..

Those “incel losers” are the products of a whole bunch of forces outside of their control. Twisted and miserable. I don’t know how to help guys like that but I know they didn’t create themselves.

This was the quote at the bottom.of the page lol:

The sickness of the individual is ultimately caused by and sustained by the sickness of his civilization.
Herbert Marcuse ~in 1955

The only thing I would add is that “strong men” and “firm hand” can have many personality iterations, but that it comes down to sufficient inner strength to be able to maintain ones self-esteem under fire.

They are a product of our culture’s fucked up attitudes about gender roles and sex in general.

They simply can not deal with women being equals with their own agency, who don’t owe any guy anything, no matter how nice they may be to them.

I think they genuinely have social disorders and need therapy where they learn how to interact with fellow humans, especially the opposite sex.

I took a dive into their sub-reddit before it was shut down. They are sociopaths. They don’t see women as equals. They see them as objects that should act in a certain way when certain input is provided:
Act nice + be a friend when she is in need + compliment her = she now owes you sex

And because she doesn’t agree, she is evil and a “Stacy”.
(Stacys are “attractive women who turn down incels”)

They literally believe that if you are nice to a girl on a date and buy her dinner, then she owes you sex at the end, and if she says no and you take it by force, it’s not rape because she would have opened her legs in the same situation for a “Chad” .

(Chads are “attractive guys who get hot girls”)

So, the feminists are their own worst enemy then?

I think that feminism, in the classic pink-haired land-whale sense that is so derided by today’s red-pillers, is like the snake that is eating its own tail. It has begun to devour itself. But I have no problem with earlier iterations of feminism. First-wave feminism brought women the right to vote in the U.S., after all. But I do have a problem with much of the leading edge of feminism today that ignores basic things like human biology. No matter what many people believe, there really is a difference between the sexes.

This thread is going off the rails with feminism and alpha beta bullshit. It’s not a thread about guys who have been mistreated by a woman. The OP put up Average size globally and he’s now gone from here. Either get back on track or start a new thread. Maybe I’ve been “mistreated by women about my size” I dunno?

I’m not trying to be brash but this is how threads go off the rails let’s get it back on topic

but instead should foster healthy attitudes about women that can help our members develop positive relationships with the opposite sex as well as to help heal trauma caused by previous negative relationships and experiences that would otherwise prevent those guys from forming healthy relationships with the opposite sex.

I totally agree.

Not to mention that this community shouldn’t be spreading and promulgating misogyny, but instead should foster healthy attitudes about women that can help our members develop positive relationships with the opposite sex as well as to help heal trauma caused by previous negative relationships and experiences that would otherwise prevent those guys from forming healthy relationships with the opposite sex.