Aroused vs Excited (concerning men)
I stated this is another thread of mine, but since it wasn’t heavily viewed, I thought if I stated it in another way more people would comment.
Let me say that I believe arousal is the mind being stimulated leading to an erection in a male while excitment is the penis being stimulated with no mental component to it.
Here’s why this is important for us PErs: based on the when you measure your L”xG” you may be counting yourself short, plus I believe the quality of the erection (arousal vs excitment) may place a bearing on your gains.
Here’s my personal example: Started PE (I didn’t take accurate before measurements-sorry I just jumped into it) with what seemed to be a large-not huge (why else would I be here)-cock around 8.5NBPx5.75 (I didn’t measure girth, but I only fit into xl magnums and some here said that was the minimum girth need to fit into them), but with close to a year into it I saw very little gain (9BPx5.8 and yes I was dedicated, enough to where I believe my grades slipped a little-I’m more balanced now). That was until I started over on the newbie train and “blew up” to 9.25BP (still 5.8” girth).
Unfortunately, this 0.5” increase in length (8.75BP when I started) after 1.5 years is disappointing to a dedicated PEr.
But then I realized something: when I was ready to pound the lucious ass of my gf, my dick felt larger and thicker than when I PE; in fact, it was as if I had a clamp on. This got me thinking that this cannot be the same cock. The thing is when I jelq, clamp, whatever, I don’t use any pictures or vids (hence stimulating arousal) like many here; I only use memories of my girl to help me get going, which has been productive at times (arousal) but many times lead to subpar erections (excitement).
Let me be clear here: excitement does not mean limp, it means not gaining an erection at your full potential, but you still get an erection. And this is where it may get tricky to notice. Because I have orgasmed off of an excited erection and an aroused one, but the “excited” orgasm was not fulfilling (meaning your body is not drained like after a long “fuck” with your gf/wife) while after making love to my girl or if I happen to get an aroused erection, I’m through for the day-I don’t want anything to do with sex!
Like I said for me the aroused state is similar to having a clamp on (those who clamp can testify that their unit gets very big when clamped off), and therefore, I think that’s why gains for girth (obviously the only thing I’m interested in gaining right now) for me were difficult to come by at the beginning (this theory is based on aristocrane-sp?- theory for girth gains coming from continuous pressure against the tunica) as my erections were not as full.
Thanks for reading my thoughts…any questions (or comments)
BTW, For those wondering my size when I clamp it reaches 9.5NBP x 6.0 -when I sex my gf up it does not get that big…but close.