I’ve slept with dozens of women and never had a complaint. Most were when I was a lot younger, before getting married. My ex wife was tight and used to complain about me putting two fingers in. I never felt insecure with her. A recent girlfriend was huge - I could put four fingers in without any discomfort to her. I definitely felt insecure with her and it turns out that her exhusband was much bigger than me and ex boyfriend was bigger again. It was almost impossible to make her cum with straight vaginal sex. But this also applied to her ex partners, despite their size. She was what prompted me to start PE. I now have a new GF and she loves my dick. She had never had a vaginal orgasm until she met me (she’s 40) and now she can now have 10 orgasms in a session of straight vaginal intercourse. It’s not about the size for her but the warmth, security and love. I told her about PE and she wasn’t fussed. I asked her if she would like me to continue and she said she didn’t mind. I think that she wouldn’t mind it being bigger but frankly in the scheme of life we’re both very happy.
My point is that all women are different. A lot more different than a lot of discussions on these forums allow for. Anybody who is focused on the mechanics of sex (size, etc); and this goes for women and men; is missing the main game, which is intimacy. I think that worrying about penis size is a barrier to real intimacy. I’m not saying not to PE. I’m still here after all! I’m just saying that if there is one single answer to great sex it’s intimacy. A big dick just helps!
Started Oct 15: 6.75" BPEL 4.9" MEG, Currently: 7.2" BPEL 5.1" MEG Goal: 8" BPEL 5.6" MEG