Are you doing PE for yourself, or for a woman

Women can change every time.

I do it for myself. And I share the goals with who deserves, not just desires.

Very intertwined.

You see, I am a bit of a physiological fetishist. If my partner isn’t having an amazing time it’s no good for me. I am very empathic and seldom have sex with someone unless I at least find them interesting and care about them a bit. This makes the whole thing worse as it isn’t simply a performance obsession.

But truth to tell? I really think my PEing had a lot to do with some inner-child iamaru giggling his ass of at the idea of getting a larger dong.

Pretty difficult to do when she doesn’t even want to talk to me on the phone, let alone see me.

At first I did it in the hopes of impressing my partner, and having more sex. Well, my partner has sometimes commented that I am larger, but it has not resulted in more sex. The longer I do it, the more I find that its for me. Its become really a rather selfish thing in a way. In another way it seems to have taken on a rather ‘spiritual’ quest. Difficult to explain.

I’m doing PE for myself.

I´m doing it both for a woman and for myself.

Perhaps Sigmund Freud was right about earlier fixation :-P

Sounds like a great lady, these are the girls we must get :D

Myself, definitely. I would never do anything to my body for a woman.

I was always doing it for me. Health first. Then size.

It caused sparks with my first girl. She was against it. It made me into a novelty with my second girl, she bragged about my size more than I ever did. After that, ain’t tell any women I slept with. Up until recently, with one I really loved.

She was supportive of my PE, despite not having the ability to handle me fully. She enjoyed the pain and still loved sex with me. Only turned me down once. Really more of a “I can’t go on tonight” and she knew how I felt about it.

The one time I felt like I was doing it for a woman I felt like a sex toy with adjustable settings. I keep it to myself and do it for myself these days.

I do it for me, mostly. I’m a full blown stealther.

Ultimately, I want to be able to pleasure my wife to the best of my ability way humanly possible.

For me, but eventually will be used against an female’s orifice.

PE is all for me and me alone. I’ve always been under the mindset that doing it for someone else won’t really yield the full satisfaction from it - the goals are not your own so your stake in it is degraded, IMO. If my gf derives pleasure from it (which she most certainly does), then great. She knows a little of what I do, but not to the full extent (she’s only seen a couple of items in my toolbox). I’m a borderline PE addict (I engage in it every single day) and I love the way it makes me feel. My lifestyle and schedule allow me to engage in my PE sessions virtually whenever I want and I take full advantage of it.

Top 3 profile pictures BigBootyFan; I’ve never had the support from ex girlfriends but hopefully one day. I’m doing it 100% for myself but hearing other guys on here talk about their wives and girlfriends excited and supportive is always motivating.

Thanks. That’s Cecibel Vogel if you’re interested.