Regardless, I go on jelqing. Something's got to give.
As for the “big dick mentality”… it’s easy to get… just get really drunk.
Nah, but really, that mentality is just confidence. Some people have it, some don’t and have to get it, regardless of dick size. Although, if your fears of being small have affected your confidence, than obviously getting a bigger dick would improve your “mentality”. I know it would for me.