a real confidence booster..........

well…I’ve been with the same girl for 12 years …we have 2 kids

I normally dont cheat…but hey…if some other chick comes after

me, I’m not gonna say no. so I meet this hot chick. we have

sex…& during sex she’s making these sounds like it hurts a bit. :)

so she tells me during sex that I’m the first guy in a long time

that make it hurt like that. (need less to say, I got so excited

when she said that , that I nearly came. But thanks to my

newley developed PC muscles. I held back) before we had sex

she told me that doggie style was her favorite position. So

when I told her to turn around for some doggy action. Shesaid

no. I asked her why..she said… “It would hurt to much”

I’ve PE’d in the past…but I just restarted like 3 months ago

starting measurments 5.5 NBP, 6.5 BP

5.5 EG

Current measurements 6.0 NBP, 7.125 BP (sometimes more)

6.0 EG

I thought I was of average size….but according to this girl

I’m not. :) this is just the inspration I needed to keep me

doing my exersises. Goal: 7 NPB I feel non-bone pressed

is what really counts. 6.5 EG

It’s nice to hear compliments like that. It’s a real ego-booster, but I don’t know about the cheating part…..maybe I’m just old-fashioned.

That is cool feedback from her. The cheating thing is disturbing to me too, though. I’ve been there and won’t ever do it again (too high an emotional price for all), but must admit it was itself an ego boost at a time when I was in desperate need of one.

I must concur, nice to hear, but the cheating is sketch. I’ve dumped friends who treated their SO’s that way. It’s just not cool (unless you’re in some sort of open relationship, where it’s stated as ok).

I’m glad for your gains dude but whats this all about : “…we have 2 kids I normally dont cheat…”. Thats the lamest thing I’ve heard from a man in along time.

Confidence booster ? - Don’t you feel your wasting 12 years of relationship. What’s even the point if you uncommitted. Guys who cheat deserve to lose an inch.

Wow some nice men here.
I also don’t like it when people are cheating.
I think I would feel very bad when I have cheated her and then going to kiss her again….

But I don’t know what will overcome me if I have the opportunity.

So I guess, a guy who fathers two kids and divorces his wife after couple of years just because he “has fallen out of love” is a better man than a guy who takes care of his wife and kids for 12 years and occasionally cheats to spice up his life a bit?

I think you are being a bit harsh on the guy who started his thread.

Its not cheating if you dont get caught. No only joking. Ive never cheated on anyone

thanks dude…I really appreciate that comment.

I guess I should have left the cheating part out of my post..

But….we are Men. with strong sex drives. I dont openly
pursu relationships with other women…but if one comes on to me.
& I know that its only about sex…I’m not gonna say no. sorry if this
offends anyone. I have more to say about this but im gonna keep
it to myself. the way I feel about it…is the way I feel about….
anyway ..thanks for all the good comments.

When cheating occurs there is usually a reason. The cheater is not content for some reason. Now it may be that a particular cheater may have no legit reason to be not content other than being a selfish asshole. I think though we must admit that the wife or husband (victim) may have played a role in setting up the frame the cheater felt not contented. I am far from “blaming the victim” here. Selfishness is probably the biggest motivator in those who cheat, but some spouses (by taking the other for granted or neglecting) set up situations where the cheater feels justified.

I wouldnt wish that on any guy…regardless if I agree with his lifestyle
or not. thanks alot

In all honesty, how many guys really, really want to get married. In most cases guy gets married because it feels like a right thing to do, not because he is really looking forward to married life. Women is a clear winner here as she gets a male who will provide for her and her offsprings. When a guy gets married at 25, does anyone actually beleives that he is thrilled with the prospect of having sex with the same woman for the rest of his life. However, something (society pressure) makes him get married and have kids. After a few years when he realizes that he will not be able to keep his hands of other women what is he to do?

A) Leave his wife and kids, so that kids have much, much smaller chance of success in later life

B) occasionaly have safe sex (and I stress sex as opposed to relationship) with other women without the spouse knowing about it

I vote for B.

Average:

I think you’re larger than average, or at least by the charts we see.

“….we are Men. with strong sex drives. I dont openly
pursu relationships with other women…but if one comes on to me.
& I know that its only about sex…”

That’s a pretty lame excuse to cheat on someone whose bore you two children. Don’t know if you’re married or not, but if she catches you and runs your ass off, you’ll be paying big bucks until these kids are, at least, 18. And all this shit for, as you say, “it’s only about sex.” I’m glad to see that so many men on this thread are against cheating. we guys are normally branded as having our brains in our pants, guess we don’t fit the stereotypical MAN. I don’t mean to climb on your ass, Average, but don’t let the flattered ego - which lasts as long as you’re screwing the girl - fuck up your family’s future. I tell you this only as the husband of an attorney who has seen many a family destroyed by this type of indescretion. Glenn

I’m not suprised she was hurting.

6 inches of girth is a fat dick! Supposedly the average girth is around 4.75 or 5” at most. So your definitely above average in that department. I would kill for a 6” girth along my entire shaft..Wanna swap half an inch of your girth for half an inch of my length? Hehe

this wasnt supposed to turn into a thread about the morals of

cheating. & Glen Delta. I do see where you are coming from and

I also understand the risks that I am taking….but that is just the

way I feel about it. thanks for the concern & advice. (even though

it just went in one ear & out the other) I tried to edit the cheating

part out of this thread…but I couldnt…something about 10 min. or

somthing like that. I just want to drop the subject & talk about

what we are all here for. PE

Jelquist.. nope.. I just came to realize that girth is just as important

as length. thanks for the offer though.

Pulling….sounds like we are pages from the same book. :)