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8" x 6" and not happy??

Originally Posted by Badfish
I might see a roadblock in the “tunnel” ahead:
I recently was up to 6” 3/8” girth after pumping, (didn’t measure length) and [wife] had a bit of hard time with the girth. Plus I was an inch short of getting all the way in lengthwise. She said “not painful”, but “feels like tearing”. We’ve been together for 10 years and she’s never had issues like that before, including my previous gains, so I’m wondering if we’re reaching a physical limitation with her.
So I might be nearing the end of what I can try to go for in terms of girth, because it already doesn’t really fit in her mouth or butt . I might try for more in length, but I might have to call it quits by about 6.5 girth, if I am able to even get to that point. And if I go for more length, I think that any added length will get left out in the cold. Somehow guys like Titelist are supposedly able to fit even more length inside their ladies, but I think I might be reaching the capacity limit of mine.

So, in reflection of the post title, I think I am now about 80% “happy” with my size, but don’t think I will be 100% happy until I am forced to stop gaining due to [wife] saying it hurts or is hindering our sex life. Then I will have reached my ideal size. I don’t know quite what it is, but I would speculate 8.5x6.5 for our relationship.

Disclaimer: Anal and Oral are pretty much out of the picture at this point, but were not a big part of our sex life to begin with. If I needed to keep anal in the picture, then I would say that 8x6 is already too much, and a 4-5” girth would have been ideal for oral with her. Actually a 4-5” girth might have changed my sex life entirely with the ability to more easily fit through the front and back doors…

6.5” would be sweet!

My wife gives me oral as a treat every now and then but always complains about her jaw hurting.

Anal never happens. She’ll let me try as much as a want but we’ve not been very successful.


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Originally Posted by Badfish
I might see a roadblock in the “tunnel” ahead:
I recently was up to 6” 3/8” girth after pumping, (didn’t measure length) and [wife] had a bit of hard time with the girth. Plus I was an inch short of getting all the way in lengthwise. She said “not painful”, but “feels like tearing”. We’ve been together for 10 years and she’s never had issues like that before, including my previous gains, so I’m wondering if we’re reaching a physical limitation with her.
So I might be nearing the end of what I can try to go for in terms of girth, because it already doesn’t really fit in her mouth or butt . I might try for more in length, but I might have to call it quits by about 6.5 girth, if I am able to even get to that point. And if I go for more length, I think that any added length will get left out in the cold. Somehow guys like Titelist are supposedly able to fit even more length inside their ladies, but I think I might be reaching the capacity limit of mine.

So, in reflection of the post title, I think I am now about 80% “happy” with my size, but don’t think I will be 100% happy until I am forced to stop gaining due to [wife] saying it hurts or is hindering our sex life. Then I will have reached my ideal size. I don’t know quite what it is, but I would speculate 8.5x6.5 for our relationship.

Disclaimer: Anal and Oral are pretty much out of the picture at this point, but were not a big part of our sex life to begin with. If I needed to keep anal in the picture, then I would say that 8x6 is already too much, and a 4-5” girth would have been ideal for oral with her. Actually a 4-5” girth might have changed my sex life entirely with the ability to more easily fit through the front and back doors…

Titleist said something to the effect of “greater than 6.5” girth requires a committed relationship” and I firmly stand behind this.

You’re married but…if 6.5 is the end then it’s where it’ll have to stop. At least you understand what the limits are.

For bachelors like myself a limit of 6.5” girth is probably a bit on the high side. But this is where I’m headed.


Now: 9" BPEL x 6" MSEG as of 12/16/2016 This is my story...and a few progress pics of me here.

Then: 6.25" x 4.37" in 8/2009 Are you new to PE? Here's some advice I wish someone had given me when I first started.

My big secret? My methods. There is no "Holy Grail" of Penis Enlargement. Only time and effort works. I'm *8* years in and counting. All you have to do is put the work in and keep the faith. Also Fitness helps too.

As a visual type person, I’m gonna have to get my sewing kit so I can accurately visualize 6.5” circumference. Out of curiousity, are you guys aware of what women think when we hear 8x6?

We hear 8x6 and we dont think 6 around, in our head the immediate picture is 2” longer than it is wide. The reason for this is most dildos are measured that way in description. Another reason we can’t measure lol.

Originally Posted by BlackRose
We hear 8x6 and we dont think 6 around, in our head the immediate picture is 2” longer than it is wide. The reason for this is most dildos are measured that way in description. Another reason we can’t measure lol.

Yeah the diameter vs circumference.

Always figure there’s a large disconnect between what men think about length and girth vs what women think.


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Yes! There was a video that went around once that showed a group of women going thru realistic shape/size dildos they asked them to pick the one they would prefer size wise etc. for a one night stand (as in, if it were attached to a guy obviously) then they asked them to pick one for what they considered the ideal partner size. One night stands were bigger. The really interesting part though, was the next day they brought the same women back and asked them to find the same dildo they had picked the day before, this was not “what size do I feel like today” they put the one she picked in a group of similar shaped ones (as in, if the one she had picked the day was curved up, all the selections had the same curve, if it had a larger head, or was thicker at the base, same thing, but different lengths and diameters) and they told her to pick the same one she did the day before out of that group.

The VAST majority of them did not pick the same one… I think only 1 or 2 did out of nearly 20.

The rest… They all thought they picked out the same one, but they had gotten one bigger than the previous day.

Moral of the story, women are not accurate judges of size, especially when it comes to memory. We exaggerate even when we don’t mean to, so if you are statistically average, odds are good your past lovers are likely saying you are 6-7 and around 1.5-2 inches diameter unless you actually told them measurements or they took them. This is more due to us thinking 6-7” is “average” when we hear numbers than it is to her having been with men who all happened to be larger than average 90% or more of the time. It also creates a disconnect in when we attempt to buy toys. For example, I just went to Adam and Eve’s site, the “best seller” Adams realistic or whatever. The dimensions are 7” long, 1.5” wide. That means the circumference is roughly 4.75” and the length is actually listed as “5.5 insertable inches.” Which makes it more average size than any kind of monster, but women think of it as 7” long.

Originally Posted by BlackRose
Yes! There was a video that went around once that showed a group of women going thru realistic shape/size dildos they asked them to pick the one they would prefer size wise etc. for a one night stand (as in, if it were attached to a guy obviously) then they asked them to pick one for what they considered the ideal partner size. One night stands were bigger. The really interesting part though, was the next day they brought the same women back and asked them to find the same dildo they had picked the day before, this was not “what size do I feel like today” they put the one she picked in a group of similar shaped ones (as in, if the one she had picked the day was curved up, all the selections had the same curve, if it had a larger head, or was thicker at the base, same thing, but different lengths and diameters) and they told her to pick the same one she did the day before out of that group.

The VAST majority of them did not pick the same one… I think only 1 or 2 did out of nearly 20.

The rest… They all thought they picked out the same one, but they had gotten one bigger than the previous day.

Moral of the story, women are not accurate judges of size, especially when it comes to memory. We exaggerate even when we don’t mean to, so if you are statistically average, odds are good your past lovers are likely saying you are 6-7 and around 1.5-2 inches diameter unless you actually told them measurements or they took them. This is more due to us thinking 6-7” is “average” when we hear numbers than it is to her having been with men who all happened to be larger than average 90% or more of the time. It also creates a disconnect in when we attempt to buy toys. For example, I just went to Adam and Eve’s site, the “best seller” Adams realistic or whatever. The dimensions are 7” long, 1.5” wide. That means the circumference is roughly 4.75” and the length is actually listed as “5.5 insertable inches.” Which makes it more average size than any kind of monster, but women think of it as 7” long.

It’s nice to have a woman’s perspective. Thanks.


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This one, however, is 8 insertable inches, and 6.5” circumference, and if you scroll down to the video, you don’t even have to watch the video to see its a monster in her hands.

http://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=33602

This is under the “large dildo” tab and its “official” measurement is 10.5” which is another example of why women are entirely confused by size and measurements, because they see a “monster” and it says 10.5” and they think “omg that’s huge! I bet it would hurt like hell!” All while what they are looking at is actually 8x6.5, but if you ask her she will likely tell you it is 10.5” long, and while she would use two fingers roughly 2.5-3 inches apart to show you how much longer it is than “average,” that means while she is thinking of an actual average size she is mentally thinking that “average” size is 7-8 inches when she subtracts the 2.5-3 from the 10.5 inch length. If a dildo is labeled 5 inches she is going to think it’s small when she reads that, even if it’s a dildo that’s average size like the first I mentioned from Adam and Eve’s site. Basically, between men exaggerating thier size and that being reinforced when we purchase something like this that’s labeled as 7.5” but is only 5.5 insertable and the other two inches are the balls and base, it’s really easy to see why we think the “average” is actually 7-8”

Originally Posted by BlackRose
Yes! There was a video that went around once that showed a group of women going thru realistic shape/size dildos they asked them to pick the one they would prefer size wise etc. for a one night stand (as in, if it were attached to a guy obviously) then they asked them to pick one for what they considered the ideal partner size. One night stands were bigger. The really interesting part though, was the next day they brought the same women back and asked them to find the same dildo they had picked the day before, this was not “what size do I feel like today” they put the one she picked in a group of similar shaped ones (as in, if the one she had picked the day was curved up, all the selections had the same curve, if it had a larger head, or was thicker at the base, same thing, but different lengths and diameters) and they told her to pick the same one she did the day before out of that group.

The VAST majority of them did not pick the same one… I think only 1 or 2 did out of nearly 20.

The rest… They all thought they picked out the same one, but they had gotten one bigger than the previous day.

Moral of the story, women are not accurate judges of size, especially when it comes to memory. We exaggerate even when we don’t mean to, so if you are statistically average, odds are good your past lovers are likely saying you are 6-7 and around 1.5-2 inches diameter unless you actually told them measurements or they took them. This is more due to us thinking 6-7” is “average” when we hear numbers than it is to her having been with men who all happened to be larger than average 90% or more of the time. It also creates a disconnect in when we attempt to buy toys. For example, I just went to Adam and Eve’s site, the “best seller” Adams realistic or whatever. The dimensions are 7” long, 1.5” wide. That means the circumference is roughly 4.75” and the length is actually listed as “5.5 insertable inches.” Which makes it more average size than any kind of monster, but women think of it as 7” long.

So we should get accurate diameter measurements? I’ve bought from A&E (can’t beat some of those deals) but I never did diameter measure. Is it mid shaft, thickest point, or at the head?

I can totally pretend to use this method of measurement. Not like accurate numbers will change how she sees what any of us are packing. I mean it still is like describing color to someone with a seeing impairment. It won’t summon accurate imagery. *chuckles*

In all seriousness, it makes sense. I mean it’s a simple way to look at it without using a ruler. And I know women pick dildos at the store by picking them up. They don’t break out a tape measure. We as men over think this. We measure down to 1/16”. We debate measuring tools and methods. Or you can look like a dildo she saw one time marked 9x2” that looked “too big” and that’s pretty much her thought when she sees you, regardless how recent and precise your measurement is.


Now: 9" BPEL x 6" MSEG as of 12/16/2016 This is my story...and a few progress pics of me here.

Then: 6.25" x 4.37" in 8/2009 Are you new to PE? Here's some advice I wish someone had given me when I first started.

My big secret? My methods. There is no "Holy Grail" of Penis Enlargement. Only time and effort works. I'm *8* years in and counting. All you have to do is put the work in and keep the faith. Also Fitness helps too.

Originally Posted by thoughtfulgold
I mean it still is like describing color to someone with a seeing impairment. It won’t summon accurate imagery. *chuckles*

This really does sum it all up, even if you were being lighthearted lol. Point is, at 8x6 there is zero reason to not be happy with that size. Not saying anyone shouldn’t go past it, but I would firmly believe most men who aren’t happy at 8x6 are having dysmorphia issues because women keep saying that’s closer to average when it isn’t. Y’all read on line where women talk about all the guys who were 8+ inches and it’s easier to believe that 8x6 isn’t huge. The memory issue is another thing, because if you remember women tend to exaggerate, if you are 8” for example and tell her that (without her seeing it), her mind remembers the previous men as bigger than they were, and it’s also trying to reconcile that with her memory of them being “average” and so if past guy was 5.5” legit, she is going to remember him at probably 6-6.5 legit, but she’s also going to have a numbers issue because the dildo she has said 7.5” on the box and it is smaller than the memory of the last guy, so he must have been at least 8-8.5… It would be easy to get a complex from that situation because she’s telling you her ex was that big. If your legit at 8” and she sees it she’s not going to think it’s average though, she’s going to think you lied about the size so you didn’t scare her lol.

I’ll go ahead and clarify, I’m not saying any guy who goes over the 8x6 number has a dysmorphia problem, I’m just saying a guy who hits 8x6 and isn’t happy because he thinks he’s average or just slightly above average is likely having issues with it because they are comparing themselves to an exaggerated memory their partner has or don’t realize how we (women) almost all think 7-8” is average because of our skewed memory and marketing practices on our toys.

Basically, if I were a man, I wouldn’t tell a woman how big I am lol. Or if I did I would probably add 2” to whatever it actually was to accomadate for her screwed up perception of length she is pretty much guaranteed to have, but women like mystery so I’d likely leave it at “bigger than average” and let her find out lol.

Originally Posted by BlackRose
The dimensions are 7” long, 1.5” wide. That means the circumference is roughly 4.75” and the length is actually listed as “5.5 insertable inches.” Which makes it more average size than any kind of monster, but women think of it as 7” long.

Yes, same dimensions as my wife’s rabbit, which I was shocked when I took its measurements, which I only took because I was bringing it to a wedding;-)

A blanket of comfort and joy covered me when I realized that my suit was slightly larger than Mr. Rabbits. However, he has quite a few other tricks up his sleeve, that pesky wabbit!

Originally Posted by Javeez
Yes, same dimensions as my wife’s rabbit, which I was shocked when I took its measurements, which I only took because I was bringing it to a wedding;-)

A blanket of comfort and joy covered me when I realized that my suit was slightly larger than Mr. Rabbits. However, he has quite a few other tricks up his sleeve, that pesky wabbit!

“is the measurement counting the base?” It always is. And the total length is what they think of, never insertable. Jesus, it is easy to get a complex from that.

I never talk size anymore. Not until after sex. This way I can debunk what is how big and why, if I talk size at all.


Now: 9" BPEL x 6" MSEG as of 12/16/2016 This is my story...and a few progress pics of me here.

Then: 6.25" x 4.37" in 8/2009 Are you new to PE? Here's some advice I wish someone had given me when I first started.

My big secret? My methods. There is no "Holy Grail" of Penis Enlargement. Only time and effort works. I'm *8* years in and counting. All you have to do is put the work in and keep the faith. Also Fitness helps too.

Originally Posted by thoughtfulgold
“is the measurement counting the base?” It always is. And the total length is what they think of, never insertable. Jesus, it is easy to get a complex from that.

I never talk size anymore. Not until after sex. This way I can debunk what is how big and why, if I talk size at all.

Lol, I only count what’s insertable, keep the odds in my favor.

Not sure how it’s marketed.

Originally Posted by BlackRose
Basically, if I were a man, I wouldn’t tell a woman how big I am lol. Or if I did I would probably add 2” to whatever it actually was to accomadate for her screwed up perception of length she is pretty much guaranteed to have, but women like mystery so I’d likely leave it at “bigger than average” and let her find out lol.

I’ll keep this in mind. If my wife ever asks, 9.75” x over 6”.

:)


4/16 BPEL 7.2 MSEG 6.0

1/17 BPEL 7.75 MSEG ~6.2 BEG 6.75

Size anxiety is the mere response to viewing other males as a threat and the corresponding jealousy it causes. Realize that your feelings are a response to a perceived threat and the anxiety will disappear. My log: Big Booty Extravaganza (and Log)

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