7 BPEL wasn't enough for her.

Hey Hogster,

Yeah, I know dick size isn’t the most important thing. A lot of the time it doesn’t worry me at all, and I have made plenty of girls come. It’s just that sometimes you do get a real sense that it’s not quite enough for her.

As much as we are all PEing for ourselves, I’m sure most of the members here have felt that before.

Zig,

My girl does this (grabbing hips) when I get a little soft maybe 70% erect. Its still just as long its just that when I hit the end of her pussy my dick is compressed back so she isnt feeling it so much.

When I am rock hard she pushes me back when I lean into her. Also she refuses to ride me!

I’m going to get back into pumping when my new tube arrives as being rock hard is what gives one the size and your girl the best feeling.

Surely a woman enjoys the sex even if she dont cum, right? If you rub her clit at the same time then you are very likely to reach the goal quicker anyhow.

As it was mentioned before - it is almost impossible to make some girls cum from vaginal sex. She seemed like a horny minx, maybe you should’ve tried for anal? If you are into it obviously.

Hello pest.

I’m pretty sure she enjoyed it, but if you had sex three times and didn’t cum you’d be pretty frustrated wouldn’t you? Surely it’s not that different for a woman.

Yeah, I did some clit rubbing while I was fucking her. It seem to do that much.

As for anal, well I might have tried, were it not that I tested the water with the tip of a finger in there fairly early on in the proceedings, and she pulled my hand away with a small laugh and a look that said, ‘naughty, naughty’.

That means “Lick my pussy real good, and while you are at it start playing around with pussy, the area between and finally put that fingertip in there again.”

Aaaah, thank you oh wise one. Yet again, you have deciphered the ancient code of the wiley ones.

BTW, anybody know what’s happened to the spell check function?

Actually, this is the intro to a much longer discussion…that’s why I stated that I was talking about during sex.

BEING, in normal daily life requires you to come from your deepest core, or heart, to give direction. Then you execute the action from the head or mind…but only under the direction of the heart.

What this will do is filter out all the added on crap you have accumulated like fears and attachments and all the other junk that interfers with us being our true selves which is perfect.

But I thought this was way beyond the topic and boring to most people, so I tried to limit the application to the bedroom.

So…your doing fine…just try to get into the moment when you are with her when you wish to crank up the intimacy and energy.

Couple questions. Did she come? Did she like it? She may have been pulling your hips to redirect your technique or something. Maybe you should have asked her what she wanted. Just ask if she wants it deeper.

Let me tell you something: last week I had sex with an Asian woman, 26, gorgeous, who was fairly tight, but who had no trouble taking my length, and I am 8.25 bone-pressed (and I was going to the pubic bone, absolutely, with her). And SHE was grabbing my ass, slapping it, wanting as much of me as she could get in there. I did not interpret it as my being insufficient, because I doubt she has had many longer dicks in her life. I think she was just getting off on it!

Hey Zigg, I always love your threads and posts. I have enjoyed reading all of these answers as well. Now, if you will, let an old fucking geeze chime in.

First I want to address the “woman cumming by getting pounded enough” topic. Let me start by admitting I have only fucked one gal in my life, Mrs V. However, I have a lot of friends and read a lot of books. I am convinced that MOST, not all but MOST gals that cum by simply getting bitch fucked as hard as you can pound are faking the orgasm. Then again, this is not first hand experience speaking, but it is years of learning from other sources. Some gals do but they are a small % and most gals don’t. So lighten up about making her cum. At least she is not a faker.

Second issue, using a rubber. I used them for years before the childred were born and it is real easy to get one on and back into action. First of all, have the rubber out of the package and ready to grab. On the coffee table or bed stand. Have it face down so you don’t have to look at it. You know what way it goes on so simply get up on your knees and put that fucker on. I can do it withing seconds. Look at it as a break to let your excitement settle down so you don’t come as fast. Also, try the ribbed ones or even try the Rough Riders. My wife did not like them before the kids but after the kids were born she enjoyed the little hard nubbs rubbing away. Rubbers also help to keep you from cumming too fast.

Third. Her grabbing your hips and yanking you in. Mrs V does this when she is really into it. I have a 7.25x6.25 cock now and she still does it at times. This is just a techniqued that some women do, I guess. Hey, at least she is not pushing you away, look at it that way!

I love living out your stories Zigg. I would love to be in your shoes sometimes but then again I would not trade the time with Mrs V for anything.

Keep the stories coming and good luck…….

Your friend

Vinni

Back to her cumming again. Go down and buy a very small, powerful vibrator and get up on your knees, insert cock and take the vibrator and place it directly on her clit. Do not push down or rub her clit with it. Just lay the end of it on it. Now, slowly fuck away. She will absolutely love this. Take turns with the vibrator and put it on the base of your shaft and it will help to keep you from cumming. She may even take the vibrator away from you and use it on herself. If you try this, you will be amazed at how fast and hard she will cum. Works for me EVERY time. Also, please read my thread, if you haven’t yet that was mentioned before. That is a good technique that I have come up with over years and years of learning, reading and listening.

Sparky said it. :worthy: @Sparkyx

Truly masterful.

That is it Zig.

Sparky, it took me years to find out this. Excellent post. Very Zen. Very “Don Juan Matus”… Very Sparky!

Saludos,

I’m so glad to hear that I’m not the only one having problems with condoms. I believe in safe sex, but using a condom does tend to cause me to lose my erection sometimes, and like one of you above, sometimes I can’t even tell whether I’m still hard or not when I’m inside a woman.

I have the exact opposite problem to premature ejaculation: sometimes wearing a condom, I’ll go soft before I even come. Needless to say, the woman also usually does not come in such cases. The thought of even going soft, or of not being sure whether I’m still hard, will often cause me to go soft.

Also, someone mentioned that lubed condoms are WORSE for sensitivity. Is this true? I’ve noticed that my penis is most sensitive when it is still dry. When it’s been in contact with lube or vaginal fluid for a while, it becomes way less sensitive, even if we haven’t been fucking.

Using condoms is like washing your feet with your socks on

This is exactly my experience, apart from the fact that, even if I’m going a bit limp, if I start pounding a way and really going for it I’ll still cum, without even being 100% hard!

It sucks, doesn’t it?!