2 months into PE now...

Hey everyone, I haven’t posted in a while, but I have been visiting the site almost daily.

I have been PEing for a good 2 months now and I have been very pleased. On my good days, I am up to 7 1/4 EBPL, on my bad days I just shy of that length.

I have been doing this for myself and also my girlfriend, who at one point always made comments on the size of my member.

I want to know what you all think about telling people about PE. Is it a good idea to let her know what I have been up to? Any help would be greatly appreciated!

I’m single and have a lot of time to myself, so I’m probably not the best person to ask.

I guess I’d have to say that if you have an understanding partner that would support you in your PE then telling her would definitely save you having to sneak around hiding it, and it would probably make it easier to schedule your PE sessions.

Having said that I think my last girlfriend would probably have been against it one-hundred percent and knowing her I could almost guarantee that she would have been so stubborn as to not budge an inch in compromise with regards scheduling PE sessions, but that was just the way she was. So I guess the ultimate answer would be that it would depend on the people and the circumstances.

I’d be more inclined to keep it to myself unless it was a situation where sharing the information with a partner would make P.E.ing easier. People are generally critical and derisive when it comes to things they don’t understand so why give them the opportunity to de-motivate you?

I would defenitly keep it to myself. I don’t tnink girls need to know what we are up to with are penis. If she makes a comment about the new size, I would just play dumb. it must be the water, lol

There’s several threads around here about “stealth” PE’ing.
Sorry I’m too lazy to look for links right now.

I think the majority of people around here stealth PE.
although there re some who have told their spouses.
And some members SO’s are also members here.

Everyone says, “I do it for me”
But then there’s that little something that seeks validation from her about it.
If that’s the case, I’ll get the validation in another way.

Some have commented about how a woman they’ve told has used the info to be hurtful during a breakup.
Personally I steath PE.
Has your girlfriend ever said to you: dear I’m kegeling to make my pussy tighter for you.
I doubt it, why would she?

As far as mentioning PE to your mates.
well every friend I’ve ever tried to tell about it was under the old prejudice
that PE is impossible. OK forget it then, I’ll just keep the edge up for myself.
Their loss. I was trying to let them in on something special. Why bother anymore.

Funny - the other night I wore my T’s place shirt when I out.
I’m sitting around with a couple of guys and a few girls.
Finally someone ask what’s T’s place? So I tell them.
Then they all act like it’s something comical and have a good laugh.
Not one asked, PE? does that stuff work?
That would have been the first question out of my mouth.

O’well I guess the choise is yours, but there’s some things to consider.

I told my wife, and I’m glad I did. Now when I want to do the exercises, I tell her, and she leaves me alone until I’m done. And since she does all the financial stuff around here, I didn’t have to lie about the charges for the pump and some new porn DVDs. :)

I wouldn`t tell anyone for any reason.

Most people`s relationships rest on the knife edge of comprimise on one hand and control on the other….and telling someone, friend or lover, about PE is just asking for trouble.

Or, in logical terms, extremely low odds of benefit vs. exremely high odds of loss.

My wife saw an open TP page and asked me about why I was reading. I said because of insecurities about my size, and that the comments and articles made me feel better in that I shared experiences with other people and I discovered how, over time, people got over being humiliated by an ex who did nothing but talk about big black dicks….which was substantially true in my case.

I didn`t tell her I was a practicing PEer though.

She has her own insecurities, and I think she would probably find away to make my PE something she needed to do better somehow.

so I don`t tell her.

In a long relationship it is something else that I can better about myself. The wonderful side effect is more moans in the bedroom. Plus, I don’t want to hear, “Oh, you must be doing your exercizes again” right when I’m penetrating her. I just want a nice gasp and a wowed feeling to come over her. That’s it.

That was really really well said! And remember she may be a friendly loving girlfriend now but a hateful vindictive Ex in the future.

X:rolling: !! Does thunders place have T-Shirts!! Or maybe they used too, wow that’s awesome.

Thats Impressive

Audacia,

There are photos of the shirts and designs that didn’t get selected someplace. They sold about as well as ice in Alaska. They were sharp though.

I wore mine to the Gym once No-one took any notice. But not many sold in the UK I guess.

In fact I think we offered them as prizes for a competion of some sort. - No-one entered.
They are/were rather snazzy!

It makes sense. Probably if LPSG made t-shirts, they would be sold like water in the Sahara- never heard of a penury of braggarts. :)

I had started PE about 4 years ago and did it without the council of my gf at the time. Once I started to actually get gains from it she began to take notice. She kept asking me what I was doing to make it feel bigger and how it was possible. I guess most girls think you have the dick your born with and thats it. Once I started to tell her about my PE and how it works she was amazed. She commented on my size all the time. Life was good. I was away at school too so I had lots of free time to work on PE. The problems started when she would come to visit me. Since I was away at school we couldn’t have consistent sex. It was more or less like once every two or three weeks. She began to complain about my size saying that it hurt her to be on top because of how big it was getting. Now at this point I hadn’t gained more then an inch in length and maybe a half inch in girth. So moral of the story is work hard at it and you will gain. Be consistent and it doesn’t take much for girls to notice.