Thanks to all here who are progressing this field of work. I just stumbled across Thunders, and I am quite intrigued (and thankful).
Here’s why I have decided to do PE:
I always believed my wife when she said that I was “perfect” in size. That is until one day I happened to overhear her telling her sister “it’s so funny that men worry about that. ‘Because women know that SIZE DOES MATTER!” After discussing the comment with her, she said that she was referring to a guy that she had done in H.S., and that in no way was she saying that to me. She reassured me that if she were unhappy with that area, she would never have married me.
Now, I did not take this as a slight to me although it was not a brag about me. I believe her when she says that I am her best lay (and she’s had about 4 other guys besides me). However, if size does matter then why not get bigger to please her more. While my nominal gains may not WOW her (or change my self-impressions), the self satisfaction that I am doing all I can to please her is important to me.
I know that there may be a size that she cannot field, but since I’m average in size right now (6” BPEL; 5.25 EG), I do not think that getting to the larger end of the scale would hurt (no pun intended). I’d be thrilled with 1 - 1.5 inch gains in length and 0.5 - 0.75 inch gains in girth.
After having 2 kids, our sex life has been rocky. I’m just trying to capture that magic again [and have her fall head over heals for the unit again - the pregnancies made her mad at the unit! :) ]