Personally, I haven’t gained enough to press the limits of what she wouldn’t be liking. (Like a 10x9)
But I do have a theory of what feels good. Since I know my dick feels best when it is at it’s hardest (skin pulled tight) it only stands to reason that a pussy would feel best when it’s skin is pulled tight. How much dick is needed to do that?
I think that the nerve endings are best distributed and brought to the surface the tighter the skin is. A pussy can do that by engorging too. But if you can provide that feeling with a big dick, then she doesn’t have to engorge as much to get the same pleasure. That is a big deal, maybe. She may be able to enjoy sex at a frequency more often than her body would otherwise allow. To her, that just means she doesn’t have to be as ready to go, and she will learn that she can enjoy sex anyway.
Us men know that we will pretty much enjoy sex at the drop of a wink and a smile. But for women, it isn’t always the case, as they feel if they aren’t going to be able to get engorged, it isn’t going to be pleasurable, and so they say “not in the mood”. I believe a bigger dick to do the work could prove her wrong. That being said, of course the wife still needs to be open to sex, and I don’t think you need a 9x7 to accomplish the happy compromise.
Although I think there are a few faulty assumptions in this post tallheart, this part: That being said, of course the wife still needs to be open to sex, and I don't think you need a 9x7 to accomplish the happy compromise. is spot on.
Well said. :up:
My size is 7.25 BPEL by 5.5 mseg.
By no means would I consider myself big.
The problem here is that you are big. Not record breaking big, true, but quite big nonetheless. I think your wife’s behavior should be your first clue.
We should listen to what they like and feel.
Yes. Yes indeed.
It takes two.
I think you’re right here. An extremely hard and reliable 8.25 x 6.25 would be a great size to accomplish what you are talking about. I also agree, that, although my wife kegels, (very well), it takes energy to do so. So, in my mind, the less energy she has to exert to get that ooh so nice feeling, the more often she will want to get after it.
Faulty assumption, perhaps?
You think that women only enjoy sex if they don’t have to exert themselves? I’m not sure that’s the issue. And I’m sure it’s not your size either.
I guess my ego would like to allow her maximum pleasure, without a lot of work.
You’re an honest man, Acid Jazz, I’ll give you that.
How far past the cervix is the cds in general terms? Anyone?
And be advised:the CDS as a pleasure zone is highly subjective. Most of the women I’ve been with just say “Ow” if I get that deep.
The one who likes it… Well, it takes some time for her to work herself up to it. I can definitely feel it when it happens. It almost feels like a little ‘cap’ deep inside of her snugging itself over my glans. She’s had three kids herself, so even though at the beginning of our encounters she starts off very tight, after some moments she lubricates a lot and it’s all good.
She likes to do the work, though. I think for her that’s a lot of the fun.
I think, if they know about our PE efforts, and we grow, they probably will enjoy it. But, in no way, do they want you to think that it makes a difference in how they think of you as a man.
I know more than a few women who had the response that tntjockey’s wife had. Guys who are a bit on the large side who have now made sex a chore for their gals.
If memory serves, Acid, you are pretty darn well-endowed. So… Be careful what you wish for.
There is another thing too with this: some women react well to knowing about PE, and some are threatened by it. In a similar way that some men are threatened by vibrators. They think it’ll replace sex with them.
Not true, obviously, but be aware: PE can cause resentment. Fear that you’re going to stray either with PE or with someone else as a result of PE.
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