Willing your dick to grow?

I’ve been meditating and getting in touch with my penis lately. I tried working on willing an erection without thinking about sex. What surprised me was that I got a negative response. I tightened some muscle and watched my dick shrink from around 3” flaccid to barely 1” turtled up. So I tried moving an opposing muscle and got it to go back out an inch or so. My question is this:

Has anyone seriously studied this? Is it like wiggling your ears? Or is it something you can control with practice?

I can definitely will my dick to erection. It might take a little bit of touching but for the most part I can do just thinking about it.

It happens to me most mornings!

In my field (hypnotherapy) it is possible to effect all manner of physiological changes in the body, so why not the dick?

So it is possible to not have sexual stimulation, and by this I mean mental images and physical touching, and will yourself to pump enough blood to make your dick erect?

If this is so then please someone hypnotize me! :)

Part of hypnosis is mental imagery, and I’m not sure why you would want to not have the mental imagery anyway.

Having said that, mental imagery can be practiced also and be developed as a skill.

I’m just trying to get in touch with my penis in the best ways possible to see how I can affect the ED issue. If I can understand and visualise the whole picture maybe I can make it work better. Even when I handle the ED well I think it hurts deep down and I should pay attention to what my body and mind are telling me. :)

Of course, but we are visual creatures so removing a vital part of the way we function is going to limit that function.

When we visualise, we create new neural connections that eventually harden and become permanent. Your avatar is a clear representation of that, and can be used to build a stronger you. This may be too much metaphysics for this forum, but it is valid nonetheless.

I think we all realise that there is a lot of mind work involved in our sexuality. We are much more mentally wrapped up in it than we care to admit.

You are of course right about the avatar I chose. I don’t think I fully realised why I chose it. It was mostly subconcious selection of what I am hoping to accomplish.

So hypnosis is not the answer as long as I am able to to make those neural connections that I seek?

Hypnosis is a focussed process by which the visual and the kinaesthetic (body feelings) and sounds are blended together to shape a person’s thinking in new ways, with the thought that these new ways of responding will effect future behaviours, so of course hypnosis will help you to attain what you wish.

You have chosen the light body as your avatar because that’s where deep change begins, at the very essence of who we are (warning; more metaphysics).

The growth and expansion of the light body will manifest in the mundane or physical body eventually depending on how much work you do.

In your meditations focus on the colours that first appear, and when you discover that, you can build more of those colours into your visualisation.

And by the way, everything is hypnosis. How could it not be?

Thanks a-unit! Funny how this coincides with the user name I chose. I didn’t realize the journey I was embarking on. :)

I will try to focus on colors and let you know how that goes.

Another mental question? haha
What do you think of sleep talking and singing to your wife in your dream only to awaken and keep singing to her until you both laugh? Is that strange or not?