Wife wants more sex due to PE?

Look, I have all kinds of personally motivated goals for doing PE. Just for my own confidence, etc. But I would also love the byproduct of having a wife that wants/requests sex more often than the current status quo. Not going to hang my success on this outcome, but would love for it to be part of the result.

Wife and I have a lot of fun. But we’ve been pumping out kids now for the past 5 years, and I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t having an impact on our sex life. Frequency, intensity, etc. Still making time, it’s till a priority, but sometimes she’s just tired or not interested, unlike our earlier years.

Just wondering, has anyone experienced an increase in their wife’s sex drive or level of interest in sex due to increased size from PE?

Give me some good news fellas! Hoping for some motivation here!

In the beginning it kind of deterred my wife because I would pump right before sex and the girth increase would make her cramp. But once I got my workouts going early in the day and we’d have sex at night it was a good combo.

Like you and your wife our sex life took a bit of a hit after a kid. Our little one is pretty dialed in now in terms of sleep so our sex has improved and we go at it 4-5 times a week.

She really enjoys the improved EQ and length. I don’t think she’d want my girth over 5.5” MEG.

With all the kids you said you have been having she is probably too exhausted to have sex. Hell we only have 1 toddler and she tires us out sometimes. We still take a nap when she does just to keep up.

Thanks for the replies 8X6Dream and Rahman. I understand her being tired, kids take it out of you. Just more wondering if an increase in interest can be generated with a bigger wang! Maybe not even frequency etc., but rather the wife shows and expresses a heightened enjoyment from one’s gains, and perhaps doesn’t have a dramatic impact on frequency of sex (due to kids still taking their toll) but at least a reflection or validation of her enjoyment from one’s PE efforts.

I’m stealthy, so the bride doesn’t know of my endeavors here, just hoping to see a visual/audible response when on that elusive distant day, she has a tangible moment of noticing my anticipated gains.

Let me know if I should temper my hopes here, or if I can keep using that as motivation. (Again, still have my own personal motivations but this helps drive me as well)

I have found flowers, nice romantic dinners out seem to work much better. Oh and don’t forget some jewels! No I am not kidding.

Mine hasn’t noticed yet but I haven’t gained any girth yet either. That would probably make her notice more than length. I’ve gained .625” in 5 months. I’m semi stealth whereas she knows I do it but never asks questions about it. I think she doesn’t think it’s working or believes it won’t work. I haven’t measured in a month but so far I’ve been consistently gaining .125” length per month on average so hope I’m at around .75” length gain right now. I’m sure girth will be noticed sooner though. I wouldn’t be mad if I reached 9” BP and she don’t notice. I like the idea of having more room to grow. I would work girth at that point though and maintain the length because vaginas have a volume limit. I would like to reach 6.25” girth before I reach her limit. She has seen my before pictures though so I’d just show her my progress if she doesn’t believe it’s been working. If you grow slow she might grow with you and won’t notice for a while.

Wish I had some good news for you mate but I don’t. I am also a stealther we do it twice a week and thats a good week.My wife hasn’t said anything regarding size increase. Maybe because we gain so slowly over time they just get used to it

Thanks for all the input, some solid thoughts coming in.

Jimmybob, appreciate the practical advice, I too can confirm that these things do have an impact on a marriage. That said, I was looking outside the box of jewelry, compliments and flowers, for feedback as it specifically pertains to PE.

@Rahman810 those are some great gains! Way to go dude. Anything specific you’re doing that seems to be working best for you?

We have had sex immediately after pumping, she seems to enjoy, but she just likes to have sex and doesn’t seem to care about me being any bigger. Seems my PE goals are to fulfill my own personal fetishes.

As others have said, the gains come so slow that I’m not even sure she will notice for like another 10 years, maybe!

We do PE for ourselves. Unless you know something I don’t our wives are fine with just what we have. They didn’t marry us because of our dicks; they married the whole person. I have read many a post over the years where guys can’t wait until they gained and inch because the minute they get home from work their wives will drop everything, leave the kids in the bath, let dinner burn because she couldn’t wait until you got home so she could go for your manhood that she now worships. Now if that happens to you that would be great and I hope it does. And if she doesn’t will you be disappointed? Some guys do get that way. I say do it for yourself,for myself, and if they notice anything than great but it will not change the day to day of life. I really wasn’t kidding; no matter what you gain a nice romantci dinner and a nice long walk will go much further than a big dick

I started with the linear routine and do 1 on 1 off and every so often I take 2 or 3 days off if I feel that I need it. My routine is pretty light and simple but I’m still seeing gains from it. It is important to follow your PIs and take days off when you feel that you need to because that is when you grow. I have a progress log in the progress forum.

I agree. We should be doing PE for ourselves and our own peace of mind. But if you reach a point where you are uncomfortably big to your girlfriend you should consider maintanence.

Pure and simple, in my opinion f increased sex frequency is your goal, you are way better off putting more effort into/learning new ways to attract your wife than trying to grow your dick. You never stop courting your wife. Ever. That’s our lot as men. A woman’s not going to want to meet you halfway if you’re not centered and present and a safe place for her to express femininity. It might sound a little airy-fairy but you need to unlock her heart man, not plug her pussy tighter. Nothing wrong with PE, every one of us in this crazy dick-pulling cult does it for our own reasons. But don’t expect your wife to turn into the big cock-addicted girls we fantasize about in porn. If you want to make change in your relationship, you’re going to have to be open to putting in the effort to change the dynamic outside the bedroom too.

+1

Amen to all the above, I’m with The Wizard in offering a +1 to Patchukwurah’s statement along with the rest.

I fully understand and agree with all that has been shared. At the end of the day, the real path to success in the bedroom is success in the myriad aspects of the relationship and ultimately being the right man for my wife. To me, all of this was already a given, but appreciated and welcome reminders, so thanks to all. I was just curious if anyone has ever experienced the ancillary benefit/result of PE efforts that has ever been expressed by their counterpart in this way. Sounds like, from what I’m hearing, time to temper any hopes of inciting that excited expression from the wife solely due to a larger tool. I’m totally cool with that! Would just be awesome if it was part of the equation too. As many have said, I’m doing this for me, and that is more than enough motivation.

Anyhow, really appreciate the input and focused advice. I’m off to sweep my gal off her feet (with no expectations that she’ll enjoy my wang anymore than she did yesterday, or the day before, or the day before, or day before that.)